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cosmically

37 / M / straight / Single

Los Angeles, California

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Height
5' 11" (1.80m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating
Smokes
When drinking
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Religion
Agnosticism and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Pisces but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from law school
Job
Income
Kids
Pets
Languages
English

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I am inquisitive, creative, and seeking.

My Self-Summary

Lawyer guy by day, writer by night. Mostly short stories, but for a while, I was banging out a stupid novel now for National Write a Novel Month. Other times, I have been known to bang on the guitar. I just bought a used Stratocaster and a mini-amp! Some days I feel like a rock star. I actually used to be a rock 'n' roll reporter like that little punk in Almost Famous. I love words, music, movies and figuring out how to create a synthesis between my passions, my skills and my lifestyle. Not quite there yet, but I have hope, faith and drive to carry me through...

I've been running a lot lately - at the gym; to Downtown and back; at the beach, etc.

As for what I'm looking for, I read somewhere recently that it is better to imagine the type of relationship you want rather the person herself. Though I agree with this, I'll break the rule and say that, obviously, I want to meet a woman of beauty, charm, intelligence and wisdom. It'd be nice too of course if she knew a little about music, movies and books and had a bit of a rebellious streak.

Also, it'd be very nice if she wasn't the jealous type. I'm an honest dude and I don't feel that I should have to work around someone else's insecurities.

I will now follow the rule by saying that I would like the following things in a relationship:
1. Creativity
2. Communication
3. Passion
4. Evolution
5. A little independence
6. Mutual support
7. Trust
8. Some overlapping interests
9. Some different interests (for mutual edification)

What I’m doing with my life

Working, writing, reading, learning, loving, running...

I’m really good at

utilizing the subteties of the English language in conversation and empathasizing with others.

The first things people usually notice about me

I don't know - what did you first notice about me?

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books: Things Fall Apart; Children of Men; One, No One and One Hundred Thousand; Ask the Dust; Fear and Loathing; The Sun Also Rises; Demian; Ape and Essence; Cat's Cradle; At the Mountains of Madness; many others...

Movies: Naked; The Lives of Others; The Graduate; The Shining; Children of Men; Excalibur; Raiders of the Lost Ark; Donnie Darko; The Shining; many others...

The six things I could never do without

Music, friendship, words, adaptive capabilities, superhero utility belt, you...

I spend a lot of time thinking about

What goes on outside the edges of the universe.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I would like to meet the woman of my dreams... but, shhhhh...