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cosmically

41 / M / Straight / Single

Los Angeles, California

His Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 9:46pm
Ethnicity
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Agnosticism and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Pisces but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from law school
Job
Law / Legal Services
Income
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Attorney by day, writer by night. Mostly short stories, but for a while, I was banging out a stupid novel now for National Write a Novel Month. Other times, I have been known to bang on the guitar. Last year, I bought a used Stratocaster and a mini-amp! Some days I feel like a rock star. I actually used to be a rock 'n' roll reporter like that little punk in Almost Famous.

I miss that job...

I've been running a lot lately - at the gym; to Downtown and back; at the beach, etc. I ran a marathon back in October and I'm thinking that's the last one I'll do.

I like the ocean and the beach and try to get out there at least once a week. Once, I ended my Saturday run by running right into the waves.

That was refreshing...

I always wear SPF cream, which is maybe why people always seem surprised when I tell them my age. They usually guess around 30.

Perhaps, though, I look young because of some form of arrested development...

Or maybe it's because I laugh a lot - and loudly.

Or because, sometimes, I sing out loud in public.

In any case, I would like to meet ONE woman of beauty, charm, intelligence, wisdom and, hopefully, with a little bit of an edge. It'd be nice too if she enjoyed music, movies, books and the occasional camping trip. Sure, I would also like lots of overlapping interests, but it's not a requirement (healthy debate is good).

Although I've been lucky to fall in love several times in my life, I have never been married. That being said, I am certainly not against marriage and in fact I am for it - with the right woman!

I would like to find a love that will grow and evolve, however that may manifest itself. Friendship first is fine. I've done the rush-into-a-relationship-first-and-then-sort-out-the-mess thing enough times to know it may not be the best route.
What I’m doing with my life
I work for a law firm that focuses on DUI and criminal defense. I strongly believe in the principle of innocent until proven guilty and believe so-called criminals are human beings too, albeit possibly misguided. I enjoy going to court and utilizing my oral advocacy skills to help my clients.

Other than that, I spend my free time writing (working on a sci-fi/horror novella, which I will self-publish), reading, learning, loving, l-i-v-i-n', running, painting/drawing, playing music, figuring things out, considering the possibilities...
The first things people usually notice about me
That I look younger than my age. Also maybe my hair (thick), my eyes (green) or my laugh (uproarious).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Things Fall Apart; Children of Men; One, No One and One Hundred Thousand; Ask the Dust; Fear and Loathing; The Sun Also Rises; Demian; Ape and Essence; Cat's Cradle; At the Mountains of Madness; The Science of Getting Rich; Think and Grow Rich; Fahrenheit 451, Death on the Installment Plan; almost anything by H.P. Lovecraft and John Fante; A New Earth; many others...

Movies: Naked; The Lives of Others; The Graduate; The Shining; Children of Men; Excalibur; Raiders of the Lost Ark; Donnie Darko; Eastern Promises; Shutter Island; The Matrix; The Day the Earth Stood Still; Let the Right One In; Naked; Idiocracy; many, many others...

Music: Too much to list
The six things I could never do without
Music, Movies, friendship, Words, Adaptive Capabilities, You...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What goes on outside the edges of the universe, the idea of god and what it all means.
On a typical Friday night I am
In or out. If I'm in, I'm usually writing or doing work or watching a movie. If I'm out, well just about anything...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am currently drinking wine out of a silo plastic cup.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 26–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
I think it's for you to decide why you should message me. Also, of course, if you are interested in actually meeting up.