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45 • Tulsa, OK • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 30–45
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
- Last online
- Aug 18
- Relationship Type
- Mostly monogamous
- 5' 5" (1.65m)
- Body Type
- Doesn’t want kids
- English (Fluently)
Being who I am instead of being what is expected of me
Guns, Germs & Steel
Behind the Beautiful Forevers
Blood, Bones & Butter
The Price of Inequality
Seeing Like a State
Calvin & Hobbes
The Wisdom of the Crowds
The Tipping Point
The Glass Menagerie
Nausicaa of the Valley of the Wind
Howl's Moving Castle
House of Cards
Parks & Recreation
Six Feet Under
The Chef's Table
House of Lies
Ideas and the written word
Aesthetics, art, industrial design
That I care for "higher innocence"
That I find physical beauty a form of genius even when I ought not to treat it as much
That I am sometimes seduced by an imagined reality rather than the reality itself...
That I am capable of great mistakes and screwing up bad
If you know what you want
If you are a man of ideas
If you care about your body and soul
If you care about what you think but not take yourself too seriously
If you have a sense of wonder about the cosmos, its unfathomable scale, its complexity
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