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cosmicwonk

45 Tulsa, OK Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 30–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Apr 29
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
Other
Height
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly other
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism
Sign
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Education
Income
Rather not say
Status
Single
Type
Mostly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Self-confident and warm. Home and hearth. Empathy and reason.Intellectualism hits the pool variety. Modern design, entertaining,friends, red wine, and cosmopolitanism.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Excelling at what I do while knowing that at the end of the day it might mean little or perhaps even nothing
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening
Persisting
Resisting authority
Being who I am instead of being what is expected of me
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Intensity, confidence, ease, warmth, intelligence, fitness....
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books:
Guns, Germs & Steel
Astronaut Wives
Behind the Beautiful Forevers
Blood, Bones & Butter
Cooked
Nudge
The Price of Inequality
Seeing Like a State
Calvin & Hobbes
The Wisdom of the Crowds
The Tipping Point

Movies:
American Beauty
Revulsion
Mommy Dearest
The Glass Menagerie
Color Purple
Nausicaa of the Valley of the Wind
Spirited Away
Howl's Moving Castle
Monsoon Wedding

Shows:
Breaking Bad
Madam Secretary
House of Cards
Parks & Recreation
Six Feet Under
Rome
Mad Men
Tudors
Downton Abbey
Parenthood
Nurse Jackie
Modern Family
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Simplicity in the sense of it being the highest form of complexity
Loyal friends
Ideas and the written word
Aesthetics, art, industrial design
Farmers markets
Eroticism
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
...how to give life meaning when it doesn't really have any...?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Thinking, reading, writing, drinking wine...making dinners for small groups of friends, conversing, watching documentaries, historical dramas, cinema.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I trust too easily
That I care for "higher innocence"
That I find physical beauty a form of genius even when I ought not to treat it as much
That I am sometimes seduced by an imagined reality rather than the reality itself...
That I am capable of great mistakes and screwing up bad
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you have a good sense of who you are
If you know what you want
If you are a man of ideas
If you care about your body and soul
If you care about what you think but not take yourself too seriously
If you have a sense of wonder about the cosmos, its unfathomable scale, its complexity