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cosmofonz

40 F Chicago, IL

My Details

Last Online
Apr 18
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other
Sign
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Other
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Has dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly), Czech (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I'm getting an error message because I tried to skimp on the Self Summary. Bastardo! I covered this in the "What I'm doing with my life" section. Robot... is .....smarter .....than ....human ......must rant... will try to save and see if this is long enough.
What I’m doing with my life
My life is currently firing on all cylinders. I have learned tremendously from significant life lessons over the past few years. I believe and understand universal laws. As a result, I make conscious choices to create my life rather than living by default. I am fascinated by human behavior and what makes people tick. I believe everyone is our teacher if we allow it. I’m living in and creating an abundant life.

My current fascination is the science behind the healing power of the mind. Several years ago, I my life was littered with things that weren’t working in my body and in my life. I sought the reasons for this and ran across a healing modality that completely shifted me. It made me a believer in the power we have in creating the life that we want to live. So much so, that I became certified in the healing technique that helped me last fall. I manage my health and life through both western and eastern practices and philosophies. My goal is to get educated about the scientific reasons behind this power. I am doing a research paper on it for a life coach certification that I am working towards. It’s a big part of my life so it’s important to disclose here.

I’m a spiritual person and looking for that in a partner. I find that religions are man made and sometimes get in the way of the original reason they were created, to celebrate and practice spirituality. I connect with my spirituality mostly through meditation, yoga, alternative energy therapy and listening to my intuition.

The esoteric nature of this profile so far may have you thinking that I haven’t shaved my legs in a decade. As a reference point, I have a corporate job, wear heels sometimes and could do a better job of recycling. Yes, I can have a deep conversation and I also have the ability (and need) to be light. Humor is essential and I use it as often as possible. I give myself a lot of material.
I’m really good at
Identifying extras and voiceovers in movies and commercials
Leaving voicemail messages for my brother in a robot voice
Laughing at myself
Lounging
Ordering in
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Latest books for research: The Healing Power of Water, The Power of Now, The Molecules of Emotion, The Power of Intention, The Biology of Belief

(TV) It’s Always Sunny in Philadelphia, The Office, Arrested Development (How did that show get cancelled? C’mon!), Flight of the Conchords, 30 Rock, Parenthood, Modern Family

Napoleon Dynamite, Drowning Mona, Bullets Over Broadway, The Fountain, Shakespeare in Love, The Hangover, Monsoon Wedding, The Big Lebowski, American Movie, Gandhi, The Kids Are Alright, are what come to mind off the top of head..

Here’s a quick scan of my iPod… Alice in Chains, Beastie Boys (old), Dave Matthews, G Love, Iron and Wine, Jack Johnson, Kanye West, Kid Rock, Lily Allen, Madonna (new), Missy Elliot, Nelly, Nora Jones, Snow Patrol, Stevie Wonder, Tribe Called Quest, Van Morrison, U2.. I like a little bit of everything, even country.

Food…I’m pretty open.. Whatever can be delivered.
The six things I could never do without
My dogs
Coffee
Laughter
Spirituality
My friends
My family
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What makes people do what they do? What’s the next area I want to work on? What is this situation meant to teach me? Is the coffee maker still on? Do I have something in my teeth?
On a typical Friday night I am
Beat…. And need to snooze. Or sometimes I head to a group meditation. I’m good to go for Saturday night though. Let’s party. Watch a movie, see a comedy show, go to a concert, grab dinner, hang with friends…
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I just ate some weird processed cheese thing called a CHUB about a week ago that I got in a Hickory Farms gift pack last Christmas. Yeah, folks... it’s October. I’m not sure what’s grosser, that it’s called a CHUB or that I ate it in October.

(This was written awhile ago and I think it’s funny (And true! Yuk!), so I’m leaving it.)
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 30–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
I’m looking to have open, honest communication in a relationship. Even on the tough stuff. We are all looking to be accepted and loved unconditionally, which is why we shy away from this. It’s essential for me though. It will need to be for you too.

You understand universal laws and create your life consciously. You are spiritual. You live your life in an abundance of health, wealth and happiness. (That last statement is relative to the person. What it means to you is most important.) You are interested in courting someone. (And want to do it.) You want a relationship, you don’t need one. You express emotions in a healthy way. You have a great sense of humor. You have a strong work ethic. You are looking for a relationship that is committed to healthy growth and support of one another. You are kind and thoughtful. You practice some sort of mind/body/spirit connection exercise: meditation, yoga, alternative healing, etc… Fidelity is something that you value. Must love dogs… I have 2. Combined they are 20 lbs. of unconditional love. Both rescues.

Ok, so this next one I feel silly putting on here and I'm still going to do it. You take care of yourself and home. You do laundry, dishes, take out trash, etc.. I'm happy to do my part with these things as well and would expect that we both pitch in equally. I know this requirement is not glamorous but it is essential.

Highly preferred/Bonus point section:

You are handy. You fix things around the house and love to do it. You cook and love to do it. You eventually would like to live somewhere that has mild winters and nature everywhere.