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40 • Chicago, IL • Woman
I’m looking for
- Ages 30–45
- Near me
- Who are single
- For long-term dating
- Last Online
- Apr 27
- 5′ 3″ (1.60m)
- Body Type
- Mostly anything
- Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
- Graduated from university
- Rather not say
- Relationship Status
- Relationship Type
- Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
- Has dogs
- English (Fluently), French (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly), Czech (Poorly)
My current fascination is the science behind the healing power of the mind. Several years ago, I my life was littered with things that weren’t working in my body and in my life. I sought the reasons for this and ran across a healing modality that completely shifted me. It made me a believer in the power we have in creating the life that we want to live. So much so, that I became certified in the healing technique that helped me last fall. I manage my health and life through both western and eastern practices and philosophies. My goal is to get educated about the scientific reasons behind this power. I am doing a research paper on it for a life coach certification that I am working towards. It’s a big part of my life so it’s important to disclose here.
I’m a spiritual person and looking for that in a partner. I find that religions are man made and sometimes get in the way of the original reason they were created, to celebrate and practice spirituality. I connect with my spirituality mostly through meditation, yoga, alternative energy therapy and listening to my intuition.
The esoteric nature of this profile so far may have you thinking that I haven’t shaved my legs in a decade. As a reference point, I have a corporate job, wear heels sometimes and could do a better job of recycling. Yes, I can have a deep conversation and I also have the ability (and need) to be light. Humor is essential and I use it as often as possible. I give myself a lot of material.
Leaving voicemail messages for my brother in a robot voice
Laughing at myself
(TV) It’s Always Sunny in Philadelphia, The Office, Arrested Development (How did that show get cancelled? C’mon!), Flight of the Conchords, 30 Rock, Parenthood, Modern Family
Napoleon Dynamite, Drowning Mona, Bullets Over Broadway, The Fountain, Shakespeare in Love, The Hangover, Monsoon Wedding, The Big Lebowski, American Movie, Gandhi, The Kids Are Alright, are what come to mind off the top of head..
Here’s a quick scan of my iPod… Alice in Chains, Beastie Boys (old), Dave Matthews, G Love, Iron and Wine, Jack Johnson, Kanye West, Kid Rock, Lily Allen, Madonna (new), Missy Elliot, Nelly, Nora Jones, Snow Patrol, Stevie Wonder, Tribe Called Quest, Van Morrison, U2.. I like a little bit of everything, even country.
Food…I’m pretty open.. Whatever can be delivered.
(This was written awhile ago and I think it’s funny (And true! Yuk!), so I’m leaving it.)
You understand universal laws and create your life consciously. You are spiritual. You live your life in an abundance of health, wealth and happiness. (That last statement is relative to the person. What it means to you is most important.) You are interested in courting someone. (And want to do it.) You want a relationship, you don’t need one. You express emotions in a healthy way. You have a great sense of humor. You have a strong work ethic. You are looking for a relationship that is committed to healthy growth and support of one another. You are kind and thoughtful. You practice some sort of mind/body/spirit connection exercise: meditation, yoga, alternative healing, etc… Fidelity is something that you value. Must love dogs… I have 2. Combined they are 20 lbs. of unconditional love. Both rescues.
Ok, so this next one I feel silly putting on here and I'm still going to do it. You take care of yourself and home. You do laundry, dishes, take out trash, etc.. I'm happy to do my part with these things as well and would expect that we both pitch in equally. I know this requirement is not glamorous but it is essential.
Highly preferred/Bonus point section:
You are handy. You fix things around the house and love to do it. You cook and love to do it. You eventually would like to live somewhere that has mild winters and nature everywhere.
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