Hey...thanks for visiting!

At this ripe ol' age...I am done with drama! Not a choir boy or altar boy here...not even a boy scout. In fact, I am the most imperfect person that I know. But I have great respect for the world around me...and all who live in it...and I have a very big heart for the less fortunate and an unequaled appreciation for the wonderful life that I have lived...and live currently.

Divorced for over a dozen years from a 13 year marriage/16 year relationship, I am very ready to share my space with another once again...but I know that we will have to be a great fit in order to make that work! If we are...a great fit...I am ready to fall in love!

Really good, chill, funny, passionate and very positive and affectionate guy here, rebuilding financially after a hard fall from the recession...but enjoying every day along the way.

I am a consultant/developer, engaged mostly on large-scale real estate projects (business is dead right now...but it will be back), and I have a beach-front condo project in Costa Rica...also on hold but still with great potential. As an over-leveraged developer, I got caught upside down in the Great Recession of 2008...so getting back to life in the fast lane may be some time off. If that is important to you...I am probably not the one you seek. Just puttin' it all out there.

While waiting for large-scale real estate development to return, to keep busy I host a daily talk radio show in the SoCal area. I really enjoy the discourse and it gives me plenty of time to spend on the beach...contemplating life, the cosmos, and all of the magnificence that surrounds us.

The important ones for me to list here...giving affection to the one I love, and offering sincere friendship to all others.

...my smile? idk...you tell me!

Movies: Broad based in all categories...with the exception of chick flicks - another black mark for me ;). But my all-time favorite classics...The Godfather...of course; Western - Unforgiven; Comedy - Back To the Future...the first one only; Other - Seven Pounds...just love that movie!

Books: I don't read enough and feel guilty about it...but most recently Liberty & Tyranny by Mark Levin; Rules for Conservatives by Michael Charles Master; Ameritopia by Mark Levin; currently reading The Road To Serfdom by Friedrich von Hayek. I know....all conservative thinkers. But don't let that fool you, I am very progressive socially, but a believer in fiscal conservatism as a strong foundation for any individual, entity, or institution...including government.

Music Is Medicinal. With the exception of the far eastern and north European cultural stuff...I LOVE it all! Rock (all kinds), New Country, Pop, Classical, Big Bands, R&B, Salsa, Cubano, Night Club gigs...you name it! To me...music is the single greatest art form and vehicle for expression.

Food: Pretty lame here. Lost 40 lbs several years ago so I really restrict my intake and food is no longer a source of pleasure but rather a necessary sustenance. I sway too much already from my needs and am always fighting the fight not to gain back what I have been so happy to have gotten rid of.

...more time!

Finding my life mate. I'm convinced that I will have to buy her because the usual processes aren't gettin' me there! juuust kiddingggg!

...thinking about what I should be doing on a typical friday night! But...on average...finishing up my radio broadcast at 8...then gearing up to watch whatever great sports event I recorded earlier in the day/week. That said...I am all for going out...I just need to find the right one with which to adventure into the evening.

Isn't this an oxymoronic question? If its private, don't you keep it to yourself? :)))

If, after looking at my photos, you say to yourself "I'll marry him...and figure out the rest later!" ;-)

But to narrow it just a little further...if you are a very lean/petite/fit/natural gal...laid back...understand what is really important in life (love, health, family, good values), ultimately willing to relocate to the beaches of Southern Cal...and can enjoy a very casual lifestyle filled with great companionship, love and affection.

In a perfect/dream world, you would love sports...especially pro football, basketball, and baseball...and if you enjoy watching CSPAN (not to be confused with ESPN!) I would marry you tomorrow...LOL; you would be very affectionate; a Size 3 or smaller with full sumptuous lips and a magnetic smile; look great without makeup (and if you are Asian you have a particularly soft spot in my heart); love hanging out together but enjoy your own independence; your politics wouldn't matter because I am confident that if we like each other we will find common ground; you would enjoy a fit lifestyle hopefully sharing trips to the gym, bikerides, running, the beach, travel, etc.; you could kick back and party every so often without getting too uptight; you are beyond the need for "more" to fulfill you...unless the "more" that you seek is LOVE; you are attracted to fit, ruggedly handsome mature men; and you enjoy the gifts of sensuality, sexuality, and passion with great pleasure. But...we all know...it is not a perfect world! After all...just look at me. I am certainly living proof of that! ;-)

Gals...the bottom line here is that we hold out for perfect...and the days, weeks, months, and years go by...and we find ourselves still alone and wondering where the years went. I don't need perfect...I just need someone who is as enamored with me as I am with her...and that starts with mututal physical attraction. So...if we have a chance...it needs to start there. And...if it does start there...I am confident that much of the rest can be overcome!

BTW - The Dream World scenario above is meant to tell you more about me than it is the particulars that I seek in a life companion. Hopefully it helps in both cases. But please don't interpret my comments that I am a sports couch potato...because I am not.

If I have visited your profile...especially more than once...but have not contacted you...it is probably because I am very respectful of the qualifiers you have placed in your profile. If you like what you have read and/or see...please write me!

I live alone in a very comfortable 2BD shack near the beach. If you are not from this area, but just need to get away and can put up with some humble digs...consider coming to visit me, stay at my place in your own room, and let's get to know each other! I am formally educated, worldly traveled, and highly cultured but totally unpretentious...a gentlemen's gentleman and would never push myself on someone who is not totally enamored with the prospect of my advance. It could be a very safe, fun getaway for sure! We'll hit the beach and solve the world's problems in our discussions.

Fall from the heavens young lady...I will catch you in my arms...and never let you go! Together...we will stay young forever!