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couldbme22

51 / M / straight / Single

Cincinnati, Ohio

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Ethnicity
White
Height
6' 3" (1.90m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
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Education
Job
Computer / Hardware / Software
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Pets
Languages
English

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I am relaxed, caring, and not normal.

My Self-Summary

I'm active, alive and in pretty good shape. Easy to get along with, fun. Sometimes I play well with others. Though I am not sure my permanent record shows this. I'm laid back for the most part. I figure life is too short to be wasted rushing around being busy for busy's sake. I love to explore my world and discover new things and old things I never knew existed.

Sometimes I am a cook, sometimes a geek, sometimes a re-creator/transformer of furniture, sometimes a thrift store shopper, a book store browser & buyer, wanderer of parks fairs and museums. Sometimes a movie on the couch enjoying the relaxation of the moment. Sometimes just a book and the rain outside are enough for me. Sometimes I can't sit still. Sometimes I am caring and sweet. Sometimes I do the most stupid things. Always I try to find the good things in life.

Would like to meet you if you are one of those good things.

Questions for you. Can you still play? Does a thunderstorm make you want to go out and get wet? Do you have a bad girl somewhere in you? Can the touch of the right person can still move deeply? Can a song make you stop and think, feel? Is life is not a torture? If you have kids, have they said... "god mom, you are so weird".

Depending on how you answer, we might very well get along wonderfully.

Take a chance. What is the worst that can happen?

What I’m doing with my life

Living, enjoying. I've got a studio where I work on furniture in my spare time. Mostly recreating it into something new and exciting.

Like to go to summer fairs, art shows, thrift stores, garage sales. Live music is good. And so are nice quite nights watching a movie at home. Read too much for my own good sometimes to. All of which is a heck of a lot more fun to do with someone special.

Just moved to the northside. New area, new chances, new life. I like it!!

I’m really good at

Design, furniture, programming, cooking, hiking, reading, cuddling, kissing.

Oh my do I have to type more so I can make it look like I am thoughtful?

The first things people usually notice about me

Tell me when we meet.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

I cannot possibly answer that question. To many books, to much music, movies to die for. Food... all of it.

Books bio's history, good fiction, scifi, true crime.

Music from Bach to the Kills

Movies, well there are chick flicks that make me smile, action adventure, scifi, horror which you have to be with someone to watch. historical stuff. and on and on.

Food... anything good.

Yes I am a slut for books, food, enjoyment. Sorry there is so much in life to enjoy, I can't help it. And I try anything that peaks my interest. It doesn;t mean I sleep with anyone. Some people are way to literal.

If that makes me shallow. Open a bottle of cognac, turn on Horst Planets, and grab a copy of Shakespeare and we can talk about it. After we finish the cookout and beer with friends.

The six things I could never do without

Books, food, a pen and paper, fun, warm weather beautiful women... at least one. Yes, the last was being a bit of a smarty pants.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

What if
If there are any actually people out there
What's next

On a typical Friday night I am

there is no such thing

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

oops secrets. Not here. When I know you better.

You should message me if

You don't like being bored and ignored.
You value communication.
You are ready to have fun and live
You like to feel the rain
You are willing to take chances in life
You'd like to get to know me