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62 • Somerville, MA • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 45–59
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- Online now!
- 5′ 11″ (1.80m)
- Body type
- Mostly anything
- Dropped out of Ph.D program
- Art / Music / Writing
- Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
- Has dogs
- English (Fluently), French (Okay)
It was written last year to fulfill a request for something similar to Barber's lovely Adagio - most of my music is somewhat more adventurous. I also do sales for a music related company I started with a friend to pay the mortgage.
Just now, I've spent a very little time thinking about why OKC considers browsing invisibly something worth paying for. Why would I want to browse invisibly? Don't I want someone to know that I found her picture attractive enough to click on? And while I appreciate the thought of being listed as someone's favorite, I hope it's understood that as a non-paying member, I'm unable to see who has such refined taste in men.
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