I am a former small town guy, that still opens doors and pulls out chairs for girls and my elders. I enjoy anywhere that I can listen to live music. I have been several places in the US and around the globe. I lived in Japan for awhile in College.
My life is busy, but I want to find a girl that I can spend time with and get to know. I have been in a long relationship that ended recently. I am divorced with no kids. No baggage here, just want to be fair. Getting to know someone is something that I value. Spending time with someone is the easiest way to find out if you like them. Whether in person, or online, either way is fine. I tend to think text is cold and impossible to read intent most of the time.
I am always up to cook, dance, drink, laugh, enjoy the moment, and go out. My ideal night is spent with good friends, food, and fun conversations unwinding. Maybe a live concert. You could say that I like all sorts of music, but I enjoy Country, Rock, House, and even some Raggae and Jazz. I know I'm all over the map, but country suits me best.
I am pretty easy going if there is something that you want to know just ask. I value honesty, sense of humor, and communication. So if you don't think similiarly, then we probably may not be hand and glove.
I like a girl that isn't afraid of sarcasm, or being a bit aggressive sometimes. I may be a bit blunt or too upfront for some people. I talk a lot too, professional hazard. For that I do apologize, but it's me. I'm learning after years of hearing that wasn't okay, that it is okay to be me.
I am in no need to microwave my relationships friendship or otherwise. If meeting someone is not something you are okay with or want to do, I'm okay with that. I would just hope that you are able to get over the agoraphobia at some point and leave your phone or PC behind. Me nothing can substitute an in person meeting.
I like to unplug from the hum-drum day to day life put on some music and relax. If you are okay with high-may sometimes and low-may others in a balanced way, you're my kind of girl. Boots and jeans maybe a sundress are preferred over red sole high heels and an evening dress. Although I'm a fan of a balance of both. If you are that kind of girl, we will get along.