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countrydrummer

56 M Oneonta, NY

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 45–59
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 11
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Catholicism
Sign
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hello thanks for taking time to read my profile. Do you enjoy live music,concerts, theater, stimulating conversations, good food, laughter and the feeling you get when you are enjoying the moment with someone special? I am financially secure, goal oriented, compassionate and trustworthy. Perhaps I just may be the special someone you are looking to meet. The Most Amazing Journey Begins With The 1st Step, so let's take the 1st step by saying hello to each other, nothing to loose and there could be so much to gain.
Okay, rather difficult to define "me" in an on line profile but I will try. So here we go......
Separated for 2 years, divorced October 2012. The past is in the past, ready to meet new people,develop new friendships and possibly more with the "right woman".
All my pictures were taken during 2011 and 2012. I'm way more comfortable behind a camera than in front of one! What you see is what you get no need to pretend to be someone I am not, Believe me truthfulness will always prevail!
I try not to take myself too seriously, a sense of humor is important to me, it's much better to laugh than complain. I enjoy being with positive people who are honest,sensitive,creative and in touch with their feelings and emotions. A little to the left of "normal" fine (whatever "normal" may be).
I value honesty,compassion, openness, trust and respect. My friends say I am easy to talk with, dependable, confident and always ready to help. I am a man who knows how to treat a woman right and make her feel special (no modesty here!). You are smiling now I hope :-)
I would describe myself as stable in my career and goal-oriented. I strive daily to develop my talent, and learn more about myself, family,friends and life. I believe learning is a lifelong process, change is constant and all experiences are valuable. I enjoy my profession but it is only are part of who I am, I believe in keeping my life in balance. Physical, Spiritual and Emotional balance is important. I follow my spiritual path but I am open to all religious views and sincerely believe that spirituality should help us to see the oneness rather than the differences in each other.
I am looking to share some good times without pressures. I would like to learn more about you, so if we meet we can just relax and be ourselves keep it casual and see what develops. Not to sound cliche but friends first, I believe the basis for a relationship is a solid friendship.
Well I 've tried to tell you "about me" , so what moves you? if you would like to know more about me just send me a message I would enjoy hearing from you. If you take the time to send a message to me, I will definitely reply. Thanks for reading, I wish you happiness and success on you search to find your special someone.
What I’m doing with my life
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Enjoying my life, looking forward to each day with a positive attitude and striving to become all I am capable of becoming. Developing my talent, working hard, following my path. Maintaining a healthy lifestyle.
Always enjoy meeting new people and forming new friendships. So here I am on OkCupid looking to meet a very special someone..... perhaps it's you?
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I am a "good listener" compassionate, understanding and always ready to help when help is needed. Music is my passion and my profession. Received lots of compliments on my playing so I guess I am good at what I do. I enjoy performing on stage in concerts and work with several bands. I've been told (not too modest here) I am an excellent music instructor. OMG hope this doesn't sound conceited!
The first things people usually notice about me
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The 1st things people notice about me is my positive attitude and "warm" personality. Put me in a room with a group of people and you will undoubtedly find me engaged in a conversation. I am definitely a "people person"
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Favorite foods: Italian, Mexican. Chinese.

Favorite Books: Anything by Emerson or Thoreau,spiritual writings Most of my reading now is on my Kindle.

Favorite movies Action Movies, Comedy, Anything in 3D

Favorite Music: New Country, traditional Country, Rock, Funk, R& B . Blues,Latin, Standards and Lite Jazz. Sorry I am not a big fan of Heavy Metal and Rap. Favorite Bands? Depends on my mood.To name a few... Kings of Leon, Stevie Ray Vaughn,Beatles, Jimmy Buffett, Rolling Stones, BB King, Country: Kenny Chesney, Carie Underwood, Willie Nelson, Patsy Cline, Johnny Cash, Hank Williams Jr, Jazz by Charlie Parker, Miles Davis, the list goes on and on.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) Air,Food, Water, Daylight,Sleep,Good health (We'll count this as one)
2) Spirituality
3) Love (Possibly with You)
4) Music
5) Friends & Family
6) Laughter
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Hmm, I spend time thinking about something interesting, inviting and witty to write here to encourage you to say hi to me. Perhaps you could give me some suggestions.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Typical ? I try to avoid "typical" as much as possible. Like to do different things...keeps life interesting. I could be enjoying dinner at a local restaurant, getting together with friends, performing with a band or perhaps looking to meet you here on OK cupid
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Well,OK you tell me yours and I will tell you mine. We will have to talk about that in private sometime soon.
You should message me if
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If you want to know more about me just ask and I will reply.
Oops sometimes I forget to log off here so if I appear available I may not be but I check in daily and if you message me I will reply.