I am not desperate nor a saint, I must be coming across too serious. I do like to have fun, flirt and tease back and forth, and I like a little naughty girl mixed in behind closed doors. But at this age I'm tired of the FWB and screwing every woman that looks sexy. I have learned over the years what is important and I need/want. So are there any woman that wants a man that is honest and truthful and says want they mean and means what they say? I know women like "bad boys," that part I get (I used to be a little bit of one). What I never will understood is why they like "A-holes" that treated them badly. At this point in my life I'm looking for a true connection with someone that has their "act" together and like me, they know what they want. I'm far from being ready for a rocking chair. And of course there has to be a physical attraction (both ways). So is that you? If so please read on....

I’d like to find a long term relationship, but that does not happen overnight and I’m in no rush. Good things take time and I’m willing to go slow and be friends for a while.

Hi my name is Don. I'm a respectable, passionate, kind, 58 year old man with feelings, that...well you be the judge. I have a good heart and I'm good person. I'm a gentlemen and open doors for women. My mother & father raised me well. It's all about respect. I like to have fun and I'm a fun person to be with. I like the simple things in life. I'm a down to earth and realistic person. Again, I'm looking for a fun, honest and attractive woman. Only need one. Whatever you want to know about me, please ask. My favorite singers/bands: Duran Duran, George Strait, Lady Gaga, Depeche Mode, Foreigner, and Journey to name a few.

Remember words are cheap, so give me a chance to prove I mean what I say.

So now the question is are you attracted to me? If not I understand and accept that. But if you are, I trust you will contact me so we can see if we have a true connection. Also, since my "picker" seems to be broken, you must (please) contact me if you think we may be that good match. Don

1. Must be open to the idea of a long term relationship.

2. Must be single (no hidden boyfriends, FWB (friends with benefits, because if you do your heart is not truly in the search) or a husband stuck in a closet)

3. Must be size 12 or smaller, that is what I'm attracted to and can't get past it. I wish I could, plus I like legs. You don't have to have model quality legs for them to look nice. The size thing is because so many woman are BBW (big beautiful woman) and hide it the way they take pictures. I'm just trying to keep them from wasting my time and I theirs. I have meet woman on here that it was not even their picture. I'm a real guy and trust me most men feel the same way just don't put it in writing.

4. Sense of humor (but not tacky or mean)

5. Players need not apply (if you do, I will find out) I have lived long enough to know what I want and will not settle for FWB.

6. Must be open to a possible steady relationship that may be a permanent relationship someday!

7. Sorry girls the years for fathering kids are over, if you have kids this is wonderful, love them but even though I can....this man is not having any at this point of my life!

8. Must know how to have a good time and still be responsible (you understand right.)

9. Must love to cuddle up on the couch and watch a movie or go out and see one.

10. MUST HAVE A SENSE OF HUMOR AND LOVE TO LAUGH.

11. Must not smoke. I like to kiss and a health thing. Sorry I don't mean to offend but I know what I want. There are so many beautiful, sexy and I'm sure good hearted women on here that smoke but I refuse to settle. Somethings can't be compromised. I don't even want someone that has quit after 40, I'm afraid the damage is already done to their insides and/or skin.

*********Things that are important in order for any relationship to work**********

1.Words of Affirmation (you cant take back the words you say good or bad)

2.Quality Time (whether its something you both like or one you are teaching the other)

3.Fun

4.Acts of Service (let me do that for you). This means for each other. I don't want to be waited on hand and foot, I'm not that type of guy.

5.Physical Touch (lots of holding hands, hugs and kissing)

6.I want God to be part of my next relationship. I don't mean go to church three times a week but weekly would be good.

P.S. You must love small animals and small kids, they know what's truly in your heart.

P.S.S. I'm about as drama free as you can get. I have no kids, no ex's in my life and very little family. I do miss a family, my family.

P.S.S.S.. If you really want to know how a man thinks....the best book to give you a true insight would be "Act Like a lady, Think Like a Man" by Steve Harvey. It's almost perfect but it does have a point of view from a black man. Not much difference, it is the best book out....so it is a must read for all women. The FWB thing, so how is it working for you?

P.S.S.S.S. FYI: I'm 58. I have current pictures up. If this is an issue than you are not for me and it was not meant to be. If you think I'm too old for you and can't keep up this is not true. I still love sex and it still works, LOL. If you are younger than 40, I have no desire. Like young men that need to grow up a little so do most young women.

Just being me.

I'm a nice guy.

Self-Help books, most movies, 80's music, country western music, Lady Gaga, most food but seafood.

God, Friends, Family. Good Health, Love, and Happiness.

The wonderful country we live in.

Grilling out on the patio.

I like most kinds of movies, even some (not all) chick flicks.

you want a relaxed no pressure get together, just have fun. Not a job interview.