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25 New York, NY Man


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 20-26
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 7:50am
6' 1" (1.85m)
Body Type
Agnosticism but it’s not important
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), Chinese (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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Hey! Thanks for visiting. But on da real doe- it is nice to know someone is checking me out. :D

So I moved to the city about three years ago. Home turf is southern California from the OC. Yeah. I've been away from there long enough to call it that. After spending four years in the bitter midwest cold for college, I decided to keep moving east to the big apple for my big boy job.

Plot synopsis- I'm a pretty easy going guy. I joke around a lot and can be pretty sarcastic. I love it when I get some in return. But despite all that snarkiness, I like to think I'm level-headed, observant, and patient- and that juxtaposition can confuse/entertain/surprise most people.

I'm always down for an adventure- big or small, near or far, now or later. So let me know if I sound like someone you'd like to get to know, and we can take it from there.
What I’m doing with my life
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I work as a consultant at a large professional services firm doing projects in the tech industry. The work is meh, but my team is my drug, my lifeblood, and my family. Nothing beats hanging out with those crazy kids, and I have no problem seeing them 7 days a week.

Other than that, I'm just looking to have a good NYC/international experience and make the most of my time. My main hobby and expenditures are in travel- so if you have any neat destinations ideas, I have the will and hopefully the means to make it happen.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Finding almost anything funny or amusing.

Making/noticing/appreciating puns.


Talking with people and taking a sincere interest in getting to know who I'm having a conversation with and what we're talking about.

Asking questions and also answering yours honestly as long as we're both actually listening.

Although, even though I seem pretty chill, I do get into phases where I get intensely into something for a while, and then it could end very abruptly for no reason. But this only applies to non-people things so, potential friends- do not worry.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Apparently I make out to be an interesting conversationalist. And somehow, I'm also rather different in real life than I am online. Not in a bad way though.

I also ask a lot of questions.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: 1984, Life of Pi, The Stranger, Fahrenheit 451, Calvin and Hobbes (high school stuff and dystopian books pretty much)

Currently reading: Play It As It Lays
Movies: Children of Men, The Departed, Limitless, Up in the Air, Gladiator, Stranger than Fiction, Life is Beautiful, Hayao Miyazaki films, Thank You for Smoking, The Dark Knight, The Fighter, Inglorious Basterds, In the Loop

Last movie watched: Mad Max
Shows: Documentaries, HIMYM, 30 Rock, Archer, Breaking Bad, Mad Men, Modern Family, Parks and Rec, Curb Your Enthusiasm, It's Always Sunny in Philly, The Walking Dead, South Park

Shows in progress: TBD

Shows I want to get/should've gotten into: Game of Thrones, House of Lies, Homeland, Community
Music: Arctic Monkeys, The Black Keys, Childish Gambino, Daft Punk, Foo Fighters, Lupe Fiasco, JAY-Z, Macklemore, Mumford & Sons, Muse, RHCP, The Strokes, The White Stripes

Current music on repeat: Hoodie Allen, G-Eazy, Timeflies, Sam Adams, E-Dubble, Chiddy Bang, Chris Webby
Food: Anything. But proven winners are Japanese, Indian, and cookies.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Not in order of importance:
1. Swimming
2. Travel
3. Sunshine
4. Sincerity
5. Unfiltered humor
6. Purpose
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
A whole lot of topics.. a mix of personal things, different 'what-ifs', hypothetical scenarios, and 'bigger picture' stuff. Besides just basic day-dreaming and work stuff, of course.

Lately, it's been a lot more about my future and how to make the most of the next 10 years.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I don't really plan these things. If anything comes up, I just go.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I poop.
You should message me if
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you want to hang out with a genuine/kind-of-weird guy. I'm honestly looking for low-pressure dates to try out restaurants and bars or go do things in the city with. I'm not fielding for the future mother of my children nor am I looking for something quick and easy.

If you're a cool person that thinks we could have a good conversation together, then you're someone I'd love to get to know.