Let me put it in plain English for you gals, ( and I know I am going to get in trouble here) when men see you display yourself or most of yourself here we think "easy", right or wrong that is how we process it, it is how we are wired. So don't be surprised when Mr. Wonderful shows up and all he wants is sex.
Now despite what my suit promotes and what I just said I am no prude. I love beautiful women, I love sexy and I understand marketing.... however ( and I guess I am alone on this) I would rather find a LADY who respects herself and has enough self-worth not to show everything to everyone. I myself would like something to look forward to. The soapbox is closed.
UPDATE: Going in for hip replacement and will be horizontal for 6-8 weeks. Can still chat and get to know you (my preferred method) but if you are looking for a quick thing .. ..not me anyway.... but not a good time now.
ALSO: I am not a paying member so if you "like" me I can't see it. Please drop me a line if you truly do "like" me.
While I am sure there are many great ladies out there, we have not met. I have met your evil cousins though.
Good luck to you, I wish you all the best.
Ladies....may I give you a tip??? There is not a thing wrong with confidence. However if you start your profile with how attractive and wonderful you are guys see it one of two ways, narcissistic or over compensating, either way not good. Think of it as when you tell us no posing with our shirts off.
Thus ends your safety tip for today.
I have a lot of love to give to the right lady. I am an old fashioned romantic...flowers, cards, PDA, the whole nine yards. If you don't want someone who knows how to treat a lady I am not for you.
I am a divorced father of two great kids. The kids are the center of my world.
I have a decent sense of humor or at least I try. It is very dry, and to a degree sarcastic. I like to laugh a lot.
I have a very small circle of true friends but many acquaintances. I am very loyal to both.
I enjoy being out side. Like to camp, hike, swim, horseback ride.
I want what everyone wants...that special someone with whom to share their life. Even at my age I still believe in "soul mates." I guess it is the romantic in me. I want that person who when I see them causes the butterflies in me to dance. I am looking for the person who after years together can still cause me to laugh about the stupidest things. I want someone to talk with ..not talk to. I need that person to know me and who will let me know her.
Geeezzz....if you dont want someone like me either one of two things...1) You have that sophomoric desire to date the "bad guy" ..which you are right I will NEVER be that guy. Not to say I can't protect you. I taught and studied Martial Arts for nearly 20 years. May not be a bad guy but not a push over. 2) You are wrapped up in physical appearance, which I understand.You want a hot 30 year old guy.... I am neither, move on.