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cptflume

30 New York, NY Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Technology
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I enjoy a challenge, mental or physical. I value staying engaged, honest communication, risk. Quality over quantity. I'd like to think of myself as intelligent, interesting, and funny. I take things seriously, but I got jokes.

At the moment, I'm on here to find one of three things: a serious relationship (not looking to force it...it'd have to be a very rare connection. I'd rather be alone than compromise too much), something casual that involves great sex, or new friends.

If you're racist, sexist, homophobic, xenophobic, are mean to waitstaff, or get teary-eyed when you hear the national anthem then we probably won't get along very well.
What I’m doing with my life
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For work, I lead a team of data analysts at a non-profit healthcare system. I enjoy solving puzzles and making quantitative analysis accessible to others in order for them to provide better care. Work is important to me, but I prioritize life beyond that.

I've done activism for many years, and have written a lot of non-fiction. I still write.

Over the past couple of years, I've dedicated a lot of time to learning Brazilian Jiu Jitsu. I love the sport, and hope to remain a lifelong practitioner.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
math, writing, computer stuff, storytelling.
The first things people usually notice about me
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The other day someone said this to me: "I'm sorry but I just had to say that you have perfect hair." So for now I'm going with that.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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These books have had a lasting impact on me: The Jungle, A Handmaid's Tale, The Grapes of Wrath, Jane Eyre, Autobiography of Malcolm X, Marx's Capital, A People's History of the United States.

I really like Anthony Bourdain's stuff (books, TV shows).

I to eat most types of food except seafood. I like it spicy.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Society...where we're at, where we're going, how things might be better.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Doing my thing. Probably going to jiu jitsu then either to a bar with friends or home.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm much less innocent than I look
You should message me if
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You are confident, audacious, genuine.

You are looking for a relationship to enrich your life, but not consume it.

You take yourself seriously. I've noticed a lot of people on here say they don't take themselves seriously. That seems sad to me. I mean, if you believe in the afterlife (which I don't), then how you act now is going to be kind of important since it will impact you for all eternity.

If you don't believe in the afterlife, then this is your one shot, so why not take it seriously!? I don't mean never laugh - laughter is ancient for a reason, and should be a part of any serious life - but I'd prefer to be with people who would like their life to mean something.

OR: you have information on the history of the filing cabinet and/or ancient filing systems.