Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I enjoy a challenge, mental or physical. I value staying engaged,
honest communication, risk. Quality over quantity. I'd like to
think of myself as intelligent, interesting, sensual, and
At the moment, I'm on here to find one of three things: a serious
relationship (not looking to force it...it'd have to be a very rare
connection. I'd rather be alone than compromise too much),
something casual that involves great sex, or new friends.
* If you're racist, sexist, homophobic, xenophobic, are mean to
waitstaff, or get teary-eyed when you hear the national anthem then
we probably won't get along very well. *
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
For work, I lead a team of data analysts at a non-profit healthcare
system. I enjoy solving puzzles and making quantitative analysis
accessible to others in order for them to provide better care. Work
is important to me, but I prioritize life beyond that.
I've done activism for many years, and have written a lot of
non-fiction. I still write.
Over the past couple of years, I've dedicated a lot of time to
learning Brazilian Jiu Jitsu. I love the sport, and hope to remain
a lifelong practitioner.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
math, writing, computer stuff, storytelling.
The first things people usually notice about me
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The other day someone said this to me: "I'm sorry but I just had to
say that you have perfect hair." So for now I'm going with that.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
These books have had a lasting impact on me: The Jungle, A
Handmaid's Tale, The Grapes of Wrath, Jane Eyre, Autobiography of
Malcolm X, Marx's Capital, A People's History of the United
I really like Anthony Bourdain's stuff (books, TV shows).
I to eat most types of food except seafood. I like it spicy.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Society...where we're at, where we're going, how things might be
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Doing my thing. Probably going to jiu jitsu then either to a bar
with friends or home.
You should message me if
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You are confident, audacious, genuine, a feminist.
You are looking for a relationship to enrich your life, but not
You take yourself seriously. I've noticed a lot of people on here
say they don't take themselves seriously. That seems sad to me. I
mean, if you believe in the afterlife (which I don't), then how you
act now is going to be kind of important since it will impact you
for all eternity.
If you don't believe in the afterlife, then this is your one shot,
so why not take it seriously!? I don't mean never laugh - laughter
is ancient for a reason, and should be a part of any serious life -
but I'd prefer to be with people who would like their life to mean
OR: you have information on the history of the filing cabinet
and/or ancient filing systems.
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