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cptflume

28 / M / Straight / Single

New York, New York

His Details

Last Online
Today – 4:05am
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m).
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Agnosticism but not too serious about it
Sign
Libra but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Medicine / Health
Income
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I'm very left wing...if you're racist, sexist, homophobic, xenophobic, hate poor people, are mean to waitstaff, or get teary-eyed when you hear the national anthem then we probably won't get along.

That said, the only way to stay sane while being a lefty (and doing something about it) these days is to have a sense of humor. I'm great at making people laugh and am drawn to people who can crack me up.

I enjoy good food and drink, museums, movies (and "film"), and other things people like.

Mainly, I'm on here in the hopes of meeting people with whom I can go out, have some laughs, and have great sex. You know, the kind where afterwards we're on our backs, dripping sweat, telling each other in between panting breaths that we can't believe it was that good. And then it's just quiet for a while as the air dries our tangled limbs. Those are my favorite moments.

That said, that's not the only thing that matters to me...I like to get to know people, and am open to a relationship if the chemistry is right.
What I’m doing with my life
Trying to overthrow capitalism, end oppression and exploitation, and build a world based on human need where creativity and generosity can flourish!
I’m really good at
writing, sex, logic/math, conversation, humor. Getting better at Brazilian Jiu Jitsu.
The first things people usually notice about me
My butt if they're coming up on me from behind. From the front? Actually, I bet the first thing they notice is that I'm a man. I read somewhere that people categorize strangers by gender before anything else.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Marx (capital volume 1), James Baldwin (Another Country, Fire Next Time), Bukowski (Factotum, Post Office) but I wish he wasn't such a sexist pig...he does get working shitty jobs, though.

Music: Aretha, Biggie, "Tuesday's Gone", "Paradise City"

Movies: Dr. Strangelove. My favorite Nicolas Cage movie is "Wild At Heart"

Shows: No Reservations, Trailer Park Boys, Peep Show, Mad Men, Parks and Recreation

Food: spicy, and meat.
The six things I could never do without
1) other people; 2) having sex with other people; 3) public transportation; 4) books; 5) blankets; 6) jokes
I spend a lot of time thinking about
sex, why our society makes most people spend most of their time doing something they hate so a few people can get rich, revolution, making out
On a typical Friday night I am
I love conversations in bars, movies (the company of a friend or lover is a plus, especially if cuddling is involved), events. Sometimes I like to do laundry and get up early to enjoy Saturday
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I went to preschool in Nicaragua
I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 24–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
Y0L0. You are smart and nice and want to change the world