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42 San Francisco, CA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 35–49
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Last Online
Today – 5:11pm
Asian, Native American, White
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Buddhism, and laughing about it
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and has cats
English, Chinese (Poorly), Japanese (Poorly), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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A box of crayons, or oil pastels, is magical. I intentionally color outside the lines.

My creativity finds expression in food, fashion, art, poetry and the silly little songs that I hum when I wake up. I proudly sing off-key. I have never really outgrown the mixed tape concept.

I love complicated recipes and food of all types. I create with words for a living and build communication strategies. I excel at making complex things seem simple. My mind is always in's like Cirque du Soleil in there.

The world is only as small as you imagine it to be and life is whatever you want to make of it. I have the heart of a gypsy- always in motion and always with passion. There is no such thing as regret, just experiences and journeys.
What I’m doing with my life
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Working on myself, letting bikram heal me and kick my ass
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
mixing metaphors
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My hair is usually different
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books - I devour books. Some favorites are Tom Robbins "Jitterbug Perfume" and "Fierce Invalid Home from Hot Climates", Kundera "Immortality", "The Elegance of the Hedgehog", and just finished "Sacre Bleu".

Movies - Director favorites are Jim Jarmusch, Tim Burton, Almodovar, Wes Anderson. Also loved Wristcutters a Love Story, Dead Man, and Fairy...essentially art house and indie films

Music - The Roots, The Ramones, Bob Marley, Lucky Dube, Morcheeba, Zero 7, Massive Attack, Radiohead, The XX, Mos Def, Nina Simone, Miles Davis, Billie Holiday, MC Solaar, Les Nubians, Nusrat Fateh, Erykah Badu, John Coltrane,Cowboy Junkies,Gogol Bordello, Devotchka, Gypsy Kings, Celia Cruz, Tom Waits...most anything except country

Food - Sushi and sashimi, Indian, Thai, Vietnamese, Italian, Greek, Turkish...anything spicy!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
music, poetry, art, friendship (furry and otherwise), passion and travelling
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
compassion...why is it so scarce and how people can be so insulated in their own ego that they forget humanity. one upmanship feeds a consumer economy and pop culture feeds into limited attention spans so that the cycle of desire is never complete and a measure of a person's worth is gauged by branding

Being present takes effort which makes this statement an oxymoron
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Atypical and happily offbeat
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
despite my tough exterior, I'm really a gooey marshmallow inside
You should message me if
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You enjoy long walks and rambling conversations

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