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46 F San Francisco, CA

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 38–52
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 1
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Judaism, and laughing about it
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), French (Poorly), Sign Language (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I consider myself to be (& have been told by others on occasion that I am) intelligent, considerate, fun, funny, genuine, curious & confident. I am a city-girl at heart - sort of cultured, girl-next-door with a bit of an edge. I am laid back, open minded & reliable. I was raised in downtown Chicago by happily married parents from both coasts which I believe has contributed greatly to who I am, and to what I hope to be a fairly well rounded personality. But you be the judge...

I am fairly social and like to check out a variety of activities and events - especially funky, unique & artsy ones. But I also need occasional serious down-time. I highly value my friends and family (I know - that's original.) More than anything, I am passionate about traveling. Aside from having a family one day, there is nothing I want more than to see and experience as much of the planet as I can squeeze in!

BEFORE YOU EMAIL ME you should know that as of late, my focus has shifted away from dating, to the baby thing. While I am not looking for any genetic contributions, my end goal is to create the family that didn't work out the old-fashioned way. So unless you are up for a bit of a complicated situation, you might want to pass....I keep debating taking down my profile, but who knows - the right guy might actually show up.
What I’m doing with my life
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traveling as much as I can (which is not so much these days. boo)...I'm a small business owner. Also trying to do crow pose without hurting myself. I am proud to say I recently "mastered" (slight exaggeration) the illustrious "bound revolved side angle" - which I'm pretty freakin' excited about...minor update: I've had tendonitis in both hands so have had to take a yoga hiatus. Hopefully I'll be healed soon and can rediscover my Ommmm...
I’m really good at
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I'm a good traveler; I'm resourceful, creative & artistic ; I'm good at working tirelessly when I really care about something - like fund raising for a cause close to my heart. I tend to be levelheaded, objective, rational and insightful. I like to make people think and to hopefully open their minds and help them shift their perspectives. Almost forgot - I'm a pretty good Boggle player too.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Bel Canto, A Fraction of the Whole, Extremely Loud and Incredibly Close, Middlesex, Devil in the White City, To Kill a Mockingbird, 1000 White Women, Shadow Divers...

Food: yes, please.

Music: Train, Jack Johnson, Everclear, Sheryl Crow, Maroon 5, Elton John, Jet, Jason Mraz, Lenny, Eoin Harrington, Foo Fighters, Citizen Cope, Keaton Simons, Juanes, Ozomatli & much more. Love to go see live music. The smaller the venue, and the closer to the stage, the better....

Movies: love lots of them but rarely actually go...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
allergy meds, passport, music/books, friends/family, self-awareness and coffee
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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while I like them, I am allergic to cats. I'm a 1 with both strong 2 & 9 wings. Bonus points if you know what I am talking about...
You should message me if
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You are confident and comfortable with yourself, are laid back, self-aware, intelligent, considerate, a gentleman, fun, funny, curious, honest (with yourself and others...) crave travel, are age-appropriate and enjoy doing stuff. I'd like to believe I embody those qualities (except the gentleman thing - that's your job...) and I hope you do too. As far as the "gentleman" thing, I am a bit old fashioned. I am far from high maintenance, but if you are looking for a woman to pursue you, look elsewhere...If you only send message-less emails like "hi" it probably means you didn't bother to read my profile and I will spend about the same amount of time not responding...

Call me crazy (in your head - not out loud,) but I am looking for someone truly interested in creating a deep connection. You would like to be in a serious, long lasting, committed relationship, build a meaningful partnership & want to have a family (or add to yours.) That's great if you have kids as long as 1 more is on the table (that I am working on by myself...) That's awesome if you think we'd be a great fit, but sorry - if parenting (again) is of no interest, I will never find you so irresistible I'll choose you over motherhood...

We are not a fit if if you are just looking for the following: something purely casual; you do not want/like children; if I am old enough to be your mother or young enough to be your daughter; if you are too far to date (if you travel here regularly, I'd be open), I have no interest in a pen-pal...

BTW, if you actually have issues with homosexuality, gay marriage and/or are really religious and think the bible is, in any way, an acceptable excuse to discriminate, go away. While I respect people's right to believe what they want to believe, I do not respect discriminatory beliefs. If you do not believe everyone has the right to be happy, then you do not want to hear how evil I think you are...