spiritual, tons of love to give (a tantric approach to life: not jaded, not cynical) and a mix of introvert/extrovert.
I'm artistic, feminine, curvy but sleek.
Still very much a kid at heart, and just a tad feral.
Definitely long winded (just look at the length of this profile!)
and to quote Sir Mix A lot: an LA face with an Oakland booty.
I love geeks and creative types, people who love life. Warm, enthusiastic personalities, men who appreciate both city life and being in nature suit me best. I'm open to friendships if you just want a friend to hang out an make stuff together: painting, collaging, sculpting, or co-working on laptops in cafes. I honestly prefer getting creative together over bars.
I'm hard to define. I am equally comfortable at a black tie affair as I am playing Playstation or crafting. (I love video games for their artistic merits, honestly) I'm well rounded and can wax poetic about topic ranging from Bitcoin to Buddhism.
I bring a lot of ninja communication skills to a relationship...meaning I have worked on myself, love creating win/win situations, and know how to deal emotionally with tough conversations or hurt feelings. It would be awesome to find someone similar who has what it takes to communicate well. Really, its rare.
I live on the edge of Emeryville/Oakland....and am San Francisco all the time.
I'm not American. I am quite spiritual, (not to be confused with religious. I am not religious whatsoever) I meditate, I love philosophy, appreciate Buddhism and Taoism for it's wisdom-isms. I'm pretty witchy. That said, I'm also down to earth and can hang with just about anyone, logical, business-types and atheists included.
In an ideal world I'd find someone who has both the time and means to travel. I'd love to find someone who lights me up. A best friend who I can't keep my hands off of ;)
Dating/LTR wise: This is where I am a black sheep.
I'm really only compatible with men who don't want kids, or those who know they would be fine without them. I know this rules out 90% of you, which sucks, but that's life.
And it's not that I don't like them, in fact, I don't mind if you have some already, particularly if they are older.
I do take things slow, believe in being friends before anything else. But ultimately, we are a match if you are (eventually) looking for something domestic and cozy.
I'd love a partner to go deep with. You know, co-habitation. The final frontier. Someone who wants a sweet, artistic, bohemian but together wifey to come home to and snuggle up to at night. So, if the thought of settling down gives you hives, if you are still ADD dating, we are not a match ;)
This last paragraph is meant to scare you off. If it hasn't, awesome :) xo