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36 F Emeryville, CA

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Last Online
Today – 12:46pm
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Working on masters program
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Has dogs

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My self-summary
Silly, sweet, strong (I hear this all the time so I figure I should list it) As far as looks go:, arty, feminine,
and to quote Sir Mix A lot: an LA face with an Oakland booty

I'm a graphic designer, a painter, and own a few online businesses. I make *stuff. I'm always down for meeting fellow artists and other creatives...people to check out shows with and talk about the process of making *stuff (*technical term)

but really, all platonic friendships aside, I'm online hoping to meet someone who doesn't want kids. Kids are not my thing, and sooner or later this becomes an issue when I'm dating. So there it is, up front.

That said, I do take things slow, believe in being friends before anything else. I don't rush into things....I'd rather talk til the wee hours of the night, and see what sort of adventures we can get up to together. Though someday, I do want an unshakable love and a friendship built on mutual care, bouts of ridiculousness, travel, creativity. You know, the good stuff.

I'm well rounded and can wax poetic about both Bitcoin and Buddhism. I am equally at home at a black tie affair as I am playing Playstation. I bring a lot of ninja communication skills to a relationship...meaning I have worked on myself and know how to deal emotionally with tough conversations or hurt feelings. It would be awesome to find someone similar.

I'd love to find someone to create businesses, new experiences, an amazing home base. In an ideal world I'd find someone who has both the time and means to travel.

I live on the edge of Emeryville....and am San Francisco all the time.

I love to hike, road trip, try new food, meet new people, but I can also enjoy a quiet evening: curled up with a movie, savoring food together, or spending hours together in bed ;)

I'm not American. And it bears mentioning: I am quite spiritual, (not to be confused with religious. I am not religious whatsoever)
I meditate, I love philosophy appreciate Buddhism and Taoism for it's wisdom-isms. That said, I'm pretty down to earth and can get on with just about anyone, logical, business-types and atheists included.

I'd love to find someone who lights me up. A best friend who I can't keep my hands off of ;)
What I’m doing with my life
Currently obsessing over my newest business

Dreaming of creating an artists residency here in Oakland

I live to make art. Lately, I'm spending a lot of time working digitally. I also love to paint, and sculpt, and adore installation and video. I've studied at several fancy art schools, exhibited in galleries, and have been lucky enough to actually sell most of my work. Fun, right? I balance all my artsy-stuff with good, entrepreneurial business sense. no starving here.

I love all the nuances of communication, and the possibility of life being win:win. And we all could use to brush up on our skills, so I take classes in non-violent communication ( NVC ). It's amazing stuff and is quickly making me less of a brat.

And in true Renaissance style: I've been studying Chinese Medicine for 3 years, part time.
I’m really good at
being nurturing. cuddling. reading people. rapping (poorly). making stuff. bringing something interesting to the table. planning adventures. making things grow. taming wild things. smiling...
The first things people usually notice about me
a sensuality so thick you could spread it on toast
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
authors: Byron Katie, Abraham / Esther Hicks, Eckhart Tolle
The Power of Attraction. Finite and Infinite Games

TV: Reno 911, adult cartoons, The Office, Little Britain

music: I love outdoor music festivals and will gladly get on a plane to go to a good one. Priorities. Priorities.
To name a few: MUTEK (montreal) DEMF (detroit electronic music festival) treasure island music fest, and yes, burning man (though i am not a "burner" by any means)

more music: gang gang dance, SBTRKT, fleet foxes, the beatles, beruit, matmos, iron and wine. mazzy star. the shins. jeff buckley, bat for lashes. fever ray , the knife, owen pallett. noise, drone, glitch, dubstep, funk, soul, 80's cheese, old school 90's hip hop, like black moon, smif n wesson, aaliyah, some gangsta rap believe it or not...and...fleetwood mac?

food: anything but tofu. im pretty turned on to the paleo diet these days.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
science and art, and where the two intersect. wealth creation. singing lessons. vintage Porsches. vintage campervans. poverty and class issues. street art. travel to: Iceland, Italy, Costa Rica, Austrailia, Spain, Scandinavia. Design. gardening. music. psychedelics. DMT. shamanism. tantra. how to live with my heart open. BDSM (10+ years now exploring...) how to make a long term relationship work...and be inspiring and supportive at the same time.
On a typical Friday night I am
im not a 9-5'er so fridays do not stand out for me. im just as likely to stay up late on a wednesday night. sometimes im out dancing, or maybe at home with a friend and a film. (pretty sweet set up: projected movies in bed) if im lucky im at a hot spring getting witchy. im mellowing out these days, and finding more pleasure in simple things...but i still love to dance, check out bands, attend art openings and what not. typical retired hipster stuff.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 28–38
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
~you wanna date and go slow and have fun
~like me, you desire a LTR, but imagine you could be OK without having kids
(really, this is really the only reason I am giving online dating a try)
~you're silly, you're able to get ridiculous
~you dream of an urban homestead: chickens, bees, gardens
~you're great at sexy stuff ;)
~you're extroverted / have a big personality
~you are looking for someone amazing to create a life together
~you value stability. this includes financial stability
~you communicate well
~you love love
~meditation does not weird you out.
~you love nature
~you wanna go out dancing
~you have a stellar music or film collection you want to introduce me to
~you like lists