Lets face it, people are on this site for all sorts of reasons: they're bored at work, they're running from something, or perhaps they're socially inept. Some are here to mess around with people, some want to pen pal, some are here to get themselves laid, and some are actually ready for something... more. Elusive chemistry. A best friend lover confidante.
If you have moved past the ADD-dating/casual sex phase of your life, I'd love to talk. If you are still in the meaningless banter, meaningless sex phase of your life, skip my profile, perhaps search the word "poly" and enjoy the buffet. A plethora of neurosis awaits.
I'm a strange mix of unconventional and traditional.
I'm looking for someone exceptional: someone kind/aware/awake
Someone with emotional intelligence. People that hunger for beauty and want to see the world. And ridiculous. I like ridiculous too.
Pop culture crit, tantric, romantic.
I'm sometimes a handful. I'm mouthy, outspoken and dominant at times. I know this about myself. But I make up for my feistiness by being very loyal, patient when it truly matters, good natured, crazy nurturing, surprisingly smart (about things that may surprise you), and really, a ton of fun. But I am a little feral. I need someone patient who can weather the storm a bit. If you like your women mild mannered, I'm likely not your girl. rawr
I have no trouble meeting men in "real life" (thanks to my 38-30-42) but I'm not someone who wants the traditional family with kids and a white picket fence, so most of the men I meet are not a match. I want instead an unshakable love and a partnership built on mutual care, idealism, bouts of ridiculousness, travel, art, beauty. A fellow sybarite.
I am online looking for someone who feels the same, someone who would be happy long term without kids. Ever. Yes, its intense to be sharing this stuff upfront. I assure you I actually am looking to take things slow and date...but dating men who want kids has ceased to be attractive to me. It doesn't end well, right? So finding someone who has other goals in life other than raising a family would be delish
So serious stuff aside:
I've traveled: across oceans and astral dimensions
I'm artistic, and entrepreneurial : self employed for the last decade, exhibiting painter and sculptor.
I'm an extroverted introvert...a softy/sweetheart, sometimes fragile, sometimes commanding
and a sarcastic and silly but ultimately positive person.
I live on the edge of emeryville....and am in the city all the time. I'm not adverse to traveling to see someone I connect with :)
As far as looks go, think sophisticated bohemian. Tattooed, yes, but classy. Blue/grey eyes, long dark blond hair. Thick curves.
To quote Sir Mix A lot: LA face with an Oakland booty. I'm 5'7 tall. 42 inch hips. Not petite...but curvy and sleek :)
I love to hike, live to road trip, rock climb, try new food, meet new people, but I can also enjoy a quiet evening: curled up with a movie, savoring food together, maybe playing a PS3 game or spending hours together in bed ;)
I feel a little out of step with society, but in a good way. I'm not American. And it bears mentioning: I am quite spiritual, (not to be confused with religious. I am not religious whatsoever) That said, I'm pretty down to earth and can get on with just about anyone, logical, business-types and atheists included.
I'm looking for friendship on fire.