I've been called funny, generous, creative, honest, and flexible. I
laugh at myself regularly, read too much, and am not afraid to take
a risk. I love books, that zippy click that happens when
synthesizing new ideas with old, exploring life and ideas with
friends. More? helping others, wagging dogs, and the quiet peace
that comes after a day outside or yoga, art, sex that is a
responsive conversation, and the instant rejuvenation from noticing
beauty. I hope to use all that I have learned to love
Some things that matter? esthetics more than perfection,
experiences more than having a new toy, peace more than drama. I
hope to find a connection that grows into a communion with depth
,understanding , honesty and play.( both kinds!) I hope you have an
active mind and body, know how to lead or follow, and find living
without the arts unthinkable! ( ok, important then.) I hope we both
are thoughtful, have range, and are comfortable with sharing
I love to travel, from regular theatre jaunts to NYC to off the
beaten path. Saint Petersburg, China, Curacao, or Morocco.( in
October) All journeys include museums, theater or dance, and lots
of wandering to see what I find.
I like a project, design, art, solving problems, helping others, a
walk, pushing myself physically, time w/ my fab grown sons or dog.
I like salvaging things and re-purposing them, trying new things,
gardening, alt. music, dance..hunting for beauty, a walk with the
dog, a slow dance in the living room., well, there are many things
I enjoy..and I would like to meet a daring strong fine man to savor
it all with..please? !?
What I’m doing with my life
I have a small private practice, and my summer time work as an
Innkeeper is very fun and keeps me busy. I am working on freeing up
my time and am almost there (now I need an adventure mate!) I stay
active and like to switch it up, yoga, dance and have even rowed .
Thanks to my young dog Cleopatra, I walk and enjoy the outdoors
daily. Activities? I like to go to lectures, see modern dance or
music, eating some cooking better than my own,thankful for
I also usually have a project going;I like to make /remake stuff:
it might be sewing or a house improvement.( and there is always the
garden ) I enjoy travel; would love a partner to take longer trips
with. I hit museums regularly (go to nyc often), love modern dance,
theatre, and enjoy live music.
I just finished putting up a yurt on a friends land. We share the
work, some fun, and building some community, and I get a cool
waterfront 2nd home!
I’m really good at
I'm GAME! I am a natural problem solver with a great sense of
design. (yes, I do say so myself.) I think systemically out of the
box, and learn quickly. I am good at helping others, pushing myself
to grow and learn. I can lay a patio, upholster a couch, paint a
wall. I like a project; I am a gardener and designer by avocation,
and am especially good at creating still lives or"rooms" to savor
ones surroundings (indoor or out.)I like salvaging things and
re-purposing them, and can find a way to do most things I'd like to
The first things people usually notice about me
My dancing dog?! my curiosity or helpfulness..my good hair!?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I love Paul Auster, Ann Pachett, Annie Dillard, Oliver Sacks, paul
Theroux, Penelope Lively, and just read a beautiful book by Nicole
You me and everybody else is my fav movie, and Tony Kushner my
I love many kinds of music, from Al Green ,the Shins,
fleet foxes, Mactub, Jamie Liddel, Visqueen , Adele, Messian, and
Lucinda Williams, to Bill Frissel and Elvis Costello.
The six things I could never do without
my senses, the folks I love , books ,music ,dogs ,beauty..
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to help others, balance, appreciating the beauty around us.
On a typical Friday night I am
seeing friends, at dinner or w/music, on a wander w/ the dog
outside somewhere, or home reading a book.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
You should message me if
You'd like to go for a long walk with a dog, hear some new music,
share some stories. ..maybe ya just felt kindred somehow??!!