Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Some may say I'm a bit crazy I would say spontaneous, fun loving,
independent, and surprisingly liberal are better adjectives. I love
the freedom I've had since my divorce 9 yrs ago...married over 30
yrs. I do well on my own but enjoy spending time with fun-loving
interesting people too. My handful of "real friends" are for life
but I don't get to see them as often as I'd like. It would be nice
to meet a man, who has similar interests, to spend time with. It's
important to note that I am open to being with men of color. My
marriage was to a Native American and we raised our sons to fully
embrace their culture and to make it an important part of who they
are. I like to be with those who respect and enjoy cultural
differences. I'm particularly attracted to men of color and do not
have tolerance for those who are culturally un-cool or are not
excepting of mixed race relationships!
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm working 40 hrs a week because I need to pay the bills! I'm also
sprucing up my current home to list it soon. I hope to down-size to
an older home (full of character) in Central OKC. This is my focus
right now. Along with art, music, cooking, gardening, and friends,
making creative updates to my home has always been a favorite way
to spend time. I'm ready for a change of scenery.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making people comfortable. I am friendly and outgoing. Most of my
friends say I'm the "life of the party". I admit I do like a good
laugh while enjoying a glass of wine with my favorite people. I
have a positive outlook and like to have fun...life's too short not
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My smile and friendly demeanor. I am not your typical 59 year old
middle American either....I often take people by surprise!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I read from Michael Chrichton to John Irving, self help books,
Oprah's book choices and Do-it-Yourself books. I'm also kind of a
magazine freak. I am currently enjoying Architectural Digest, Elle
Decor, Bazar and Vogue. My favorite movies are Field of Dreams,
Apocalypse Now and The Big Lebowski. I like all of Spike Lee's
stuff and the Cohen brothers too but I also enjoy Fiddler on the
Roof and Dr Zhivago very much! I'm versatile. Don't watch too much
TV but when I do it's stuff like Anthony Bordain, Chopped, Life
Below Zero, Cash Cab and I miss watching Breaking Bad! I am very
diverse in my music too! My sons raised me on rap so I have my
favorites. I still listen to all my classic rock and Motown!! (I
raised the boys to appreciate it as well) my favs range from Steely
Dan to Traveling Wilburrys, Prince, Neil Young, Natalie Merchant,
Gil Scott Heron.and The Temptations! I also enjoy music from other
cultures and often listen to Puerto Rican, Middle Eastern and
African music. Interesting food is important and I love to cook
with friends and on my own. My food choices seem to run somewhat
along the same lines as music...FULL OF CUTURE. I try VERY hard to
be vegan, though sometimes it's just vegetarian, because I have a
weakness for cookie dough and cultured dairy products (although NOT
from corporate farms). I feel very strongly about the cruel
treatment of animals in our modern society and try my darnedest
NEVER to eat things that come from that!! Good wine is also a must.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My 2 Wonderful Sons
My iPhone (it's a take along office)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Where the future might take me, how to stay healthy and active as I
age, how not to become the parent my kids need to take care of, how
to keep working without becoming burnt-out, how to make a positive
difference in the world and what is the true meaning of life
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
So happy for the break from work!! I'll be havin a glass of wine
and kickin-it with my next door neighbors (who are like family),
enjoying the peace and quiet of my home, or working on a
home-improvement project. I also usually treat myself to a glass of
nice red wine for all the hard work!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I wish I had enough money not to have to worry about money and the
future. I'm down-sizing in an attempt to help with that.
You should message me if
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You are looking for a woman who knows what she likes after years of
life experience, if you don't expect perfection and are flexible, f
you aren't looking to get married or live with someone any time
soon, if you are willing to share yourself and be open and honest
with another person, if you like to kiss, cuddle and get to know a
woman for awhile before jumping in the sack, if you are a warm
caring person desiring another warm caring person and if you won't
bring drama or bad karma to a new relationship.
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