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31 San Francisco, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–31
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 6:09am
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Graduated from masters program
Science / Engineering
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English, German (Poorly), Chinese (Okay), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Most first impressions suggest that I'm a pretty nice guy. The truth is, I'm probably just a little bit crazy.

I'm on a mini-retirement. That is, I just quit my job and am taking a break for six months. This will allow me to recharge before doing the next thing.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Attacking each day with an enthusiasm unknown to mankind.

Picking out arbitrary tidbits since college:

I delayed entry into the Real World by living in Beijing for three months. At first, I was dismayed that my graduation gift was more school, but this seeded a desire to travel. I alternated time between eating delicious street food, studying, exploring, and food poisoning.

When I came back home, I wrote lots and lots of code for a start-up. During this phase, I dressed really poorly, but work was very fulfilling.

After a couple of years, I started prioritizing health and fitness. It started with a website called and ended up trying all sorts of crazy diets, ranging from raw vegan to Paleo. I started doing CrossFit. During this time, I also started leading teams.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Saying ridiculous things, witty banter, getting things done. Ordering things on Amazon. Life hacks, eliminating the need for willpower.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
It depends on the context. When I drink, my face turns red. I think it's cute and charming.

Back when we had bookstores, you could find me in the self-help section. I'm introspective and probably think a little too much.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Every time I visit a new country, I come back with a new food obsession. After all, you don't really understand a place unless you've had their food. Going to Tokyo got me hooked on ramen and sushi. Berlin taught me to appreciate bratwursts, beer, and kebabs.

I love reading. Just finished The Wind Up Bird Chronicle, which is super trippy. Other books: Open, Freedom, 11/22/63, Winter of Our Discontent, The Man Who Folded Himself, Power of Habit, Girl with Curious Hair

As for TV, I'm currently into House of Cards, Breaking Bad, The League, The Newsroom, and Mad Men. Veep is kind of funny, too.

According to Spotify, I really like indietronica, synthpop, progressive house, alternative dance, and indie pop. I can't quite tell the difference between all of those genres.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Soft-boiled eggs, truffle oil, salt
2. Planes and trains
3. Something to read
4. Dancing
5. Spotify
6. Exercise
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
That's what she said, boom goes the dynamite!, that'll only take two minutes - just do it already, where's the snooze button, i'll email that to myself so i remember, what's for lunch?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Getting the entire dive bar to sing the cheesiest songs on the jukebox. Afterwards, I'll be talking trash and trading sheep in a game of Settlers of Catan.

Or I might be at home catching up on my favorite TV shows with a glass of wine.

As a rule, I say yes to everything I'm invited to.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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When I was a kid, I'd go to the library to play Oregon Trail. I'd fret over every critical decision, whether to ford the river or mourn when one of my relatives would die of dysentery. Imagine my dismay when I learned that you could beat the game just by pounding the keyboard.
You should message me if
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You're cute and charming! I prefer those who are interested as opposed to being just interesting.

You think LinkedIn is the worst dating site ever.

Bonus points if your message is in the form of a haiku. Pro tip: "velociraptor" is five syllables.