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57 Montclair, NJ Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 53–65
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 5:20am
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Sales / Marketing
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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"... But then they danced down the streets like dingledodies, and I shambled after as I’ve been doing all my life after people who interest me, because the only people for me are the mad ones, the ones who are mad to live, mad to talk, mad to be saved, desirous of everything at the same time, the ones who never yawn or say a commonplace thing but burn burn burn like fabulous yellow roman candles exploding like spiders across the stars and in the middle you see the blue centerlight pop and everybody goes “Awww!” " ~Jack Kerouac, On the Road

"Live life as if everything is rigged in your favor."
~ Rumi

“Love is the greatest refreshment in life.” ~Pablo Picasso

"Someday, someone will walk into your life and make you realize why it never worked out with anyone else." ~Varun Ravikumar
What I’m doing with my life
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Working in Technology in Manhattan. Creative pursuits. Friends, family. Swimming.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Working with my hands--painting, cooking, drawing, sewing, pottery, craft. Being CountOn-Able. Observing people. Picking music and setting lighting to create a mood. Experimenting. Keeping my head in an emergency. Entertaining--I throw a fantastic party. Kissing.... Power tools. Matching colors. Re-purposing furniture. Finding the longest line. Conjuring parking spots and parallel parking. Remembering faces. Dancing. Thinking out-of-the box. Figuring out how something works. Projects (my jam!). Gift wrapping presents. Writing. Making people feel comfortable. Which fork to use. Punctuation.....
The first things people usually notice about me
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Hmmm...That I drink tap water? Maybe it's all that magnetic charisma I exude. ; )
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Pretty much read everything. Music (l'm musically promiscuous)--Beatles, Bach, Brahms, Beethoven, Butterfield, Beausoleil, Badfinger (and that's just the B's, boys!!)) the Shins, Dr. Dog, Yo La Tengo, and old school... Cinnamon Girl, Layla, Leon Russell, Beck, Dr. John, LedZep, Genesis, Saturday mornings with Steely Dan, the JayB's, SRV, Clapton, BBK... I love Blues and R&B! ...ALL kinds of art and design. Architecture is a constant joy and inspiration. I love to experiment with cooking and entertaining. Reading is a passion. Can't get enough of that there NPR!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Fun stuff.... interesting stuff ...stuff that you can talk about. Creating things, making things, fixing things, understanding how things work. Insatiably curious. Not counting six things I could live without. What makes people tick? Fascinated by the world. Friends, cooking, eating, drinking and and making merry. The onomatopoeia of Yiddish. Shenanigans. Walking, biking, swimming. Especially swimming--meditative. Vulnerability. Honesty. Inquisitiveness. My daughter, family and friends. Exploring. Nesting in a hammock on a spring day. Conversation. Intelligence. A comfortable, cozy room. Photography. The sound of power tools : ) Summer gifts: porch gatherings, lightening bugs; the scent of a sun-ripened heirloom tomato, or a just-picked strawberry; the smell of the air ("petrichor") after a summer rain; a warm outdoor shower after a perfect beach day. High school half-times (infectious excitement!!!). The flutter of anticipation. The wonder of a sleeping baby's smile. Dancing bonfire shadows. Radio singalongs. Hand surfing the wind in the car. Cricket vibrato in damp evening grass. Kids playing flashlight tag. Party laughter. Ice cream man jingle. Warm surf running over my feet. The sound of a distant lawnmower. A whisper. A touch. A kiss.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
...all the scammers on this website. ..... .If scammers could fly, this site would be an airport...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
relaxing, unwinding, enjoying.
You should message me if
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you are SINGLE and if you....

☯♤you're happy and want a good woman in your life

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