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57 Montclair, NJ Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 55-65
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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5' 5" (1.65m)
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Has kid(s)
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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"Live life as if everything is rigged in your favor."
~ Rumi
"The love you take is equal to the love you make." ~The Beatles
“Love is the greatest refreshment in life.” ~Pablo Picasso

I'm an intelligent self-sufficient woman, stable, happy, curious, artsy and a bit non-mainstream, but yet I am comfortable swimming around with many kinds of folks. Mannered, kind. Looking for my haystack needle.
What I’m doing with my life
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Working in Technology Sales in Manhattan. Creative pursuits. Friends, family. Swimming. Ya' know... livin'!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I enjoy learning new things and have a natural interest and curiosity that extends in many directions. I am especially good at working with my hands--building and fixing things, cooking, gardening and home projects are all things I enjoy immensely. I enjoy great conversation...not cocktail party chit chat, per se (though I can and do hold my own in light conversation), I enjoy the deeper stuff...learning about another person's interests and passions, discussing current events and what brings another person joy.

Identifying online scammers.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Hmmm...That I drink tap water? Maybe it's all that magnetic charisma I exude. ; )
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Pretty much read everything. Music (l'm musically promiscuous)-- the Shins, Dr. Dog, Yo La Tengo, and old school... Cinnamon Girl, Layla, Leon Russell, Beck, Dr. John, LedZep, Genesis, Saturday mornings with Steely Dan, the JayB's, SRV, Clapton, BBK... I love Blues and R&B! ...ALL kinds of art and design. Architecture is a constant joy and inspiration. I love to experiment with cooking and entertaining. Reading is a passion. Can't get enough of that there NPR!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Fun stuff.... interesting stuff ...stuff that you can talk about. Creating things, making things, fixing things, understanding how things work. Insatiably curious. What makes people tick? Fascinated by the world. Friends, cooking, eating, drinking and and making merry. The onomatopoeia of Yiddish. Analog. Taking time to do something meaningful. Shenanigans. Walking, biking, swimming. Especially swimming--meditative. Vulnerability. Tenderness. Honesty. Inquisitiveness. My daughter, family and friends. Exploring. Nesting in a hammock on a spring day. Conversation. Intelligence. A comfortable, cozy room. Photography. The sound of power tools : ) Summer gifts: porch gatherings, lightening bugs; the scent of a sun-ripened heirloom tomato, or a just-picked strawberry; the smell of the air ("petrichor") after a summer rain; a warm outdoor shower after a perfect beach day. High school half-times (infectious excitement!!!). The holidays... ..especially Thanksgiving. The flutter of anticipation. The wonder of a sleeping baby's smile. Dancing bonfire shadows. Radio singalongs. Hand surfing the wind in the car. Cricket vibrato in damp evening grass. Kids playing flashlight tag. Party laughter. Ice cream man jingle. Warm surf running over my feet. The sound of a distant lawnmower. A whisper. A touch. A kiss.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why, at our age, people feel so vulnerable and unwilling to take a chance to meet someone and perchance, to fall in love....

.... to a stranger you might appear to be a 'regular' guy, but you've never been 'Joe Average'... You are a pretty fabulous fellow! You are your own man: compassionate, broadminded, adventurous, curious, creative, optimistic and intelligent. You have a great love for family and friends and all would describe you as loyal, fun, kind and dependable. You have a truly refined sense of integrity and humor and you're seeking a relationship with great friendship, intimacy & passion, trust & am I.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
relaxing, unwinding, enjoying.
You should message me if
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☯♤ you are SINGLE
☯♤ you are left-leaning or a centerist.
☯♤ you're happy and want a good woman in your life
☯♤ you believe the following (from Jon Stewart): “If you don’t stick to your values when they’re being tested, they’re not values: they’re hobbies.”