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56 F Montclair, NJ

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 12:28pm
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Sales / Marketing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
"Things work out best for the people who make the best of the way things work out."
~Coach John Wooden, the "Wizard of Westwood, UCLA 1948–1975

Fun stuff.... interesting stuff ...stuff that you can talk about. Creating things, making things, fixing things, understanding how things work. Insatiably curious. What makes people tick? Fascinated by the world. Friends, cooking, eating, drinking and and making merry. Walking, biking swimming. Especially swimming--meditative. Kids and family. Exploring. A hammock on a spring day, nestling. A garden, a sunny day, the smell of the ozone after a summer thunderstorm. A comfortable room, crickets, kids playing flashlight tag. The sound of a distant lawnmower. Music that makes me cry. A whisper. A kiss.
What I’m doing with my life
we can exchange a lot more in conversations to come.
I’m really good at
Working with my hands--painting, cooking, drawing, sewing, pottery, craft. Observing people. Experimenting. Keeping my head in an emergency. Kissing.... Managing projects. Matching colors. Re-purposing furniture. Finding the longest line. Conjuring parking spots and parallel parking. Remembering faces. Dancing. Thinking out-of-the box. Wrapping presents. Writing. Throwing a fantastic party. Making people feel comfortable. Which fork to use. Punctuation.....
The first things people usually notice about me
Hmmm...That I drink tap water? Maybe it's all that magnetic charisma I exude. ; )
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Vo-ra-cious!! So many books, so little time... I love my reading. Some favorites: "AIA Guide to NYC," "The Great Gatsby," "To Kill a Mockingbird," "The Emperor of All Maladies." Recently finished "David & Goliath" by M Gladwell. Starting "The Goldfinch" and I have Michio Kaku 's "The Future Mind" on deck.
Pretty much everything...
Not much comes to mind that I don't like. Even something off-key has joy in the expression. Opera, classical, world, folk, R&B the blues....pretty much anything and everything.
I love the randomness of radio and a disc jockey who connects... (I have come to terms with my addiction to NPR/WNYC.)
I love cooking--slooooow food.... Good soup. Baking. Exploring flavors. Spicy & Hot. Broiled. Mostly veggies... Nothing better than ingredients from the farmer's market.
The six things I could never do without
Synchronicity, passion, soul, love, creative projects and #more cowbell
I spend a lot of time thinking about
a RadioLab program I heard recently about metamorphosis was just plain amazing and fascinating to me.... I have been thinking about this constantly since I heard it:

Click here to hear the program on RadioLab....
On a typical Friday night I am
exactly WHAT is a typical Friday?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
that if you include your full name (you are nutz??), or if you cite "God" or "Bible" as one of the top six things you could never do without, or if you say you are "God fearing," I am guessing you are a scammer! :) In any case, my scammer-radar is fully functioning.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 50–65
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
you are SINGLE and if you....

☯ ♤want a mad, crazy love affair that can be fun, passionate, stimulating, breathtaking and could last the rest of a lifetime...
☯♤ yearn for a little magic, some alchemy and that feeling of "wow..."
☯♤ like adventure!!