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56 Montclair, NJ Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 53–65
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
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5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Sales / Marketing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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"... But then they danced down the streets like dingledodies, and I shambled after as I’ve been doing all my life after people who interest me, because the only people for me are the mad ones, the ones who are mad to live, mad to talk, mad to be saved, desirous of everything at the same time, the ones who never yawn or say a commonplace thing but burn burn burn like fabulous yellow roman candles exploding like spiders across the stars and in the middle you see the blue centerlight pop and everybody goes “Awww!” " ~Jack Kerouac, On the Road

"Live life as if everything is rigged in your favor."
~ Rumi

“Love is the greatest refreshment in life.” ~Pablo Picasso

Fun stuff.... interesting stuff ...stuff that you can talk about. Creating things, making things, fixing things, understanding how things work. Insatiably curious. What makes people tick? Fascinated by the world. Friends, cooking, eating, drinking and and making merry. The onomatopoeia of Yiddish. Walking, biking, swimming. Especially swimming--meditative. My daughter, family and friends. Exploring. Nesting in a hammock on a spring day. Conversation. Intelligence. A comfortable, cozy room. The sound of power tools : ) Summer gifts: lightening bugs; the scent of a sun-ripend heirloom tomato or just-picked strawberry; the smell of the air after a summer rain; a warm outdoor shower after a perfect beach day. The flutter of anticipation. The wonder of a sleeping baby's smile. The dancing shadows of a bonfire. Crickets vibrating in the damp evening grass. Kids playing flashlight tag. Party laughter. Ice cream man jingle. Warm surf running over my feet. The sound of a distant lawnmower. A whisper. A touch. A kiss.

Consider how amazing life would be if you were totally smitten with someone that opened you up to how wonderful life can be; enlivening and expanding your world. Forging a connection with someone that loves you for who you are. You know--someone who gets you can simultaneously be a Yankees and Red Sox fan--is this even possibly a thing (?)--whatever...your secret is safe with me.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working in Manhattan. Creative pursuits. Friends, family. Swimming.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Working with my hands--painting, cooking, drawing, sewing, pottery, craft. Observing people. Experimenting. Keeping my head in an emergency. Kissing.... Power tools. Matching colors. Re-purposing furniture. Finding the longest line. Conjuring parking spots and parallel parking. Remembering faces. Dancing. Thinking out-of-the box. Keeping it fresh. Figuring out how something works. Projects (my jam!). Gift wrapping presents. Writing. Throwing a fantastic party. Making people feel comfortable. Which fork to use. Punctuation.....
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Hmmm...That I drink tap water? Maybe it's all that magnetic charisma I exude. ; )
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Pretty much read everything. Music (Beatles, Bach, Beausoleil, Badfinger (and that's just the B's)) and all kinds of art and design. Architecture is a constant joy and inspiration. I love to cook and experiment. Reading is a passion. Can't get enough NPR inspiration.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I don't think there is any "thing" I could never do without... Life is about adapting to inevitable change, and sometimes letting go when it doesn't seem possible...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
“If she's amazing, she won't be easy. If she's easy, she won't be amazing. If she's worth it, you won't give up. If you give up, you're not worthy. ... Truth is, everybody is going to hurt you; you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for.” ~ Bob Marley

Yeah, Bob... I can relate...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
same as it ever was.... ~David Byrne
You should message me if
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you are SINGLE and if you....

☯♤ feel a vital force
☯♤ yearn for connection, romance and that lovely hummmm that you get when it's firing on all cylinders...
☯♤ you want someone that brings up your intellectual game, your happiness expectations and want a man's woman
☯♤ are open to the idea of a best friend that is much more
☯♤ yearn for a little magic, connection, some alchemy and that feeling of "wow..."
☯♤ like adventure!!

If this is you, fella', we should talk!

one thing, sort of important... if you are "God fearing" and/or fudamentally into your religion, we would not be a good match.