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40 M San Francisco, CA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 4:20am
6′ 6″ (1.98m)
Body Type
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Dropped out of university
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I'm a fun, outgoing and intelligent guy who really likes to enjoy life. I do things and help make things happen. I prefer that totally unforgettable adventure to playing video games at home. I like art, music and local history. I love discovering how things work. I like building things and being a part of something that does noteworthy things.

I'm poly and we both have each other's full support when dating other people. Currently I'm looking for new friends and play partners.
What I’m doing with my life
My day job is as a manager for a team working on the development of software to aid higher education. I've grew up in silicon valley and have worked tech all my life. Its weird having been the kid that just liked playing with this shit to grow up and have it be so influential. That said, I leave work at work.

I love motorcycles. I also love restoring/working on/playing pinball machines.
I’m really good at
I'm the kind of person people go to with their interpersonal problems looking for advice. I'm a fairly decent mediator.

Also, fixing mechanical things and making things work without the instructions.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm very tall and big. The kind of tall that if I stand anywhere near the front door of a bar/nightclub random people will hand me their IDs. Yes, I always look.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I love Coen Brothers movies, 80's comedies, cult classics and some sci-fi. I don't really watch TV since I'd rather be doing other things. I love music and my tastes are all over the place. I collect vinyl records and used to DJ in clubs. I've spun goth/industrial, old school funk, 80's new wave. I'm a fan of the Mission Burrito, but am pretty flexible when it comes to food.
The six things I could never do without
1. Adventure.
2. A good set of tools.
3. Burning Man.
4. Motorcycles.
5. Travel.
6. My cats.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Taking a year off and seeing more of the world. Last December I managed 3 weeks in Europe on 24 hours notice. Visited Amsterdam, Paris, Rome, Venice and Berlin. Next time I want to do it all on a motorcycle.
On a typical Friday night I am
Sometimes it's a party, gathering, group of friends or a show. Often I'll end up at the DNA Lounge given it's quite close to home.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm poly and kinky. BDSM has been a part of my life for a long time. I'm quite skilled with both the tools and the mental presence needed for an intense, fun scene.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 22–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
* You're kinky
* You're poly/non-monogamous
* Honest