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crescendo63

51 Turin, Italy Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30–60
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Today – 1:30pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other, and laughing about it
Sign
Aquarius, and it matters a lot
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently), Italian (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Sono un uomo molteplice, curioso a 360°, dedito a dialoghi profondi e molte coccole, intenso, tenero e passionale, creativo, a volte contraddittorio ma mai banale.
Cerco una relazione che possa sia nutrire una mente sempre curiosa e in movimento, che soddisfare il bisogno di calore, affettività, tenerezza e contatto fisico.

Ho fatto della crescita il focus della mia vita; cerco di assomigliare ai miei ideali e alla persona che vorrei avere al mio fianco. Ho fatto Biodanza, sono stato discepolo di Osho.
I miei valori primari sono verità, libertà, felicità e amore.
Mi piace ricercare e divulgare conoscenza, risolvere problemi, generare cambiamenti.
Mi appassiona esplorare questioni filosofiche: cosa è reale, il senso dell'esistenza, la natura di Dio, il relativismo.
Sono una persona complessa ma amo i piaceri semplici: camminare nella natura facendo un dialogo stimolante, guardare un film emozionante stando abbracciati sul divano, stare sotto le coperte parlando dopo aver fatto l'amore, danzare sentendo il corpo del partner contro il mio, tenersi per mano...

Cerco una donna di grande intelligenza (anche emotiva) ed eternamente curiosa, una esploratrice di anime e universi.
Ottimista, aperta, ama gli animali, magari vegetariana. Appassionata di coccole e sensualità avvolgente, disinibita. Amante di musica e libri. Una mente vivace, dinamica e stimolante, magari complicata ma non dominata dalle paure. Una compagna che mi faccia sentire amato e desiderato.
L'ideale sarebbe che avesse anche un lato kinky, come me.
Cerco un'affinità da anime gemelle (ma in senso spirituale più che romantico), alla Richard Bach (vedi il libro "Un ponte sull'eternità").

Ma sono anche interessato ad una amicizia stimolante e nutriente, con una comunicazione intensa e profonda. Che includa anche un clima affettuoso e tattile, dove ci si possa abbracciare o prendersi la mano - perché è naturale e ci fa sentire bene, senza timori o diffidenze.
Sono anche disponibile come "cuddle partner".

Difficilmente mi trovo bene con persone chiuse, timorose, sulla difensiva, diffidenti, rigide o fredde.
Non mi piace: chi fa la vittima, chi si lamenta spesso, chi se la prende facilmente, chi non sa cambiare idea. Chi applica due pesi e due misure. Le donne arrabbiate con gli uomini (e viceversa).

PS: Se ricevo messaggi brevi o impersonali, a volte non rispondo perché non so cosa dire.

*** ENGLISH

I'm a multifaceted man, curious about everything, fond of deep discussions and much cuddling; I am intense, sweet and passionate, creative, sometimes contradictory but never trivial.
I am looking for a relationship that is satisfying both for my curious and restless mind, and for my need of warmth, affection, tenderness, and physical touch.

Personal growth is the core of my life; I try to become the person I would like to be, and being similar to the woman I would like to have beside me. I experienced Biodance, I have been an Osho disciple.
My main values ​are truth, freedom, happiness and love.
I like gathering and spreading knowledge, solving problems, creating change.
I love exploring philosophical questions: what is real, the meaning of life, the nature of God, cultural relativism.
I'm a complex person but I love simple pleasures: a walk in the woods while having a sparkling conversation, watching an exciting movie while huddled on the couch, cuddling in bed after making love, dancing while feeling my partner's body against mine, holding hands...

I'm looking for a really smart woman (I'm a sapiosexual), with a geeky mind and emotional intelligence, always curious, an explorer of souls and universes.
She should be:
- An optimist, open minded, animal loving, possibly vegetarian.
- Fond of cuddling and sensual fondling, wild and uninhibited. Ideally she has a kinky side, like me.
- Music and books lover.
She has have a lively and playful mind; maybe she's complicated, but not fearful. She is a mate who makes me feel loved and desired.
I'm looking for a soulmates affinity (in a spiritual sense, rather than a romantic one), Richard Bach-style (see "A bridge across forever" book).
Geeks and nerds are welcome. :-)

I am also interested in exciting and nourishing friendships, with deep and vibrant conversations. Also including a warm and tactile atmosphere, where we can hug or holding hands - because it's natural and makes us feel good, without fear or mistrust.
I'm also available as "cuddle buddy".

I don't get along well with people who are withdrawn, fearful, reticent, suspicious, stiff or frigid.
I dislike people who are: "playing the victim"; whiners, complainers, blamers; who easily get offended; who cannot change their minds; who uses double standards; women angry with men (and vice versa).

PS: If I receive short or insipid messages, sometimes I don't reply because I don't know what to say.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Still trying to find my purpose in life...

I always wanted to be some kind of therapist / counselor. Maybe a relationship counselor or sexuologist.
I'm not a professional one (yet), but many people told me I should be.

My actual job is graphic design (DTP, page layout).
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
- Communicating
- Cuddling
- Understanding human beings
- Problem solving
- Computing
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My sparkling eyes, the way I move my hands while I'm talking, my smile, my intelligence... sometimes my being funny! :-D
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
- Books: "A bridge across forever" (Un ponte sull'eternita'), "Illusions", "One" (by Richard Bach).
- Movies: "The Matrix", "A.I. Artificial Intelligence", "Contact", "Love, Actually", "Amelie", many Pixar ones.
- Music: Mike Oldfield, Alan Parsons Project, New Age stuff, Classical.
I also play keyboards and - tentatively - drums on the Wii.
- TV: The Big Bang Theory sitcom.
- Food: Pizza, pasta, salads, ice cream.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
- Computer (Mac)
- Reading
- Cuddles
- Sex
- Communicating
- Bicycle
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Human beings (and their behaviour), Sex, Psychological and Philosophical issues.
Life, the Universe and Everything. ;-)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
There are no "typical" things, for me... I'd rather do what I fancy in the moment.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have a kinky side. It isn't a deal-breaker, but I would very much like a partner with similar tastes.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
... you like me;
you'd like to share some cuddles;
you think I'm your dream come true;
you think I'm your soulmate;
you'd like to try some kinky stuff with me;
or you just have something meaningful to say! ;-)

OTOH, if you can barely write a line or two, don't bother.
(sorry, this happens and it's embarrassing)