I identify as genderqueer. It's pretty clear I was born a woman but I don't feel like that most of the time. I am usually more between genders. It's frustrating, since I typically find myself attracted to more feminine bisexual or gay men. Straight men don't typically do it for me unless they're really open minded about who wears the dick in the relationship.
I have a partner who is also genderqueer. We don't play separately. WE DON'T PLAY SEPARATELY. we're both bi. If you think what biological parts either of us has is important, you're not a match for us.