***Disclaimer: I identify as genderqueer. It's pretty clear I was born a woman but I don't feel like that most of the time. I am usually more between genders. It's frustrating, since I typically find myself attracted to more feminine bisexual or gay men. Straight men don't typically do it for me unless they're really open minded about who wears the dick in the relationship.
Originally from the South burbs of Chicago and did my undergrad in literature and ethical philosophy with a minor in Spanish at Millikin U, Decatur, IL.
And I have two kitties, my daughters, Lily and Harley Q (short for Lillian Dellarobia and Harlene Quinzelle).