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35 Oakland, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 21–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

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6′ 1″ (1.86m)
Body Type
Strictly vegetarian
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
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I'm creative, spontaneous, analytical, and empathetic. I love meeting people, having adventures, and new experiences.

I'm mostly non-monogamous but I welcome and accept the nuances and complications of love, so when a mutual "fuck yes," comes along, I'm down to talk about how I can make that person feel safe.
What I’m doing with my life
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Maintaining an appreciable nine to five working for the man while putting my efforts to things in my free time that refuel my soul like building community, riding bikes and motorcycles, and drinking in whatever life pours in my glass.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Communication, honesty, recognizing the best in people, connecting people and watching the magic happen, writing, laughing, organizing events, cuddling, making people feel comfortable, getting personal, trustworthiness, hugs.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My boyish smile, how I'm always tousling my hair, my embarrassing tendency to think out loud.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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BOOKS: American Gods (anything by Neil Gaiman, for that matter). The Watchmen. When All Hell Breaks Loose. She Comes First. World War Z (DON'T FUCKING TALK TO ME ABOUT THE MOVIE!) Girl with the Dragon Tattoo. The Lost Cyclist. Wicked. Soul on Bikes, The Catcher in the Rye.

SHOWS: Game of Thrones. True Detective. Shameless. The Wire. Girls. Adventure Time. Boardwalk Empire. Breaking Bad. Six Feet Under. Dead Like Me. How I Met Your Mother. Firefly. The Walking Dead.

MOVIES: All The Real Girls. Undertow. The Girl With the Dragon Tattoo. Fargo. Easy Rider. Singles. Empire Records. The Neverending Story. The Big Lebowski. Harry Potter. The Goonies. Let the Right One In / Let Me In (both good).

MUSIC: Flatbush Zombies. Grimes. Kendrick Lamar. Massive Attack. Killer Mike. Warpaint. Vəstigə. Cunninlynguists. Ben Howard. Freddie Gibbs. Active Child. Danny Brown. FKA Twigs. Run the Jewels. PJ Harvey. Lewis. Das Racist. Ab-Soul. M83. Purity Ring. Jenny O. Light Asylum. The Pixies. Dr. Dre. SZA. The Ninetys. EARTHGANG. Sonic Youth. Uffie. Chomatics. Bat for Lashes. LUV NY. Wild Nothing. Metronomy. A$AP Rocky. Bombay Bicycle Club. Class Actress. Tupac. T. Rex. Arca. The Underachievers, Mac Demarco. Fever Ray. How to Dress Well. James Blake. Les Discrets. Sun Kil Moon. Mac Miller.

FOOD: Burritos. Curry. Brunch.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Music. My Bicycle(s). Good Friends. The Outdoors. Dancing. Snuggles.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
People. Social Issues. Why everyone's OKC username ends in -saurus. Relationships. My breath. Marketing. Bikes. Slowing down. Friendships. Love. Loyalty. Sustainability. Honesty. My motorcycles.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Dancing, riding and DJ'ing my way through another Bay Area Bike Party with a thousand of my closest friends and my speaker bike, Black Betty.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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A few of my best friends are former romantic partners. If that makes you really uncomfortable, we might not be a good match. I tend to think it shows that I am reliable and loyal--when I let someone into my life, I don't give them the boot if things don't work out just the way I want it to. I'm willing to do the hard work to keep them there, even if it's bumpy for a minute.
You should message me if
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You're interested in spending time with someone who is high yield and low drama. :)

You want an invite to the next Non-MonogaMedia--a super awesome, super inclusive event my housemate and I put on that involves a bunch of folks cuddling in our living room to watch and discuss a movie dealing with non-monogamous subject matter. :D

You want to join me on an indefinitely long adventure this summer in a camper van.

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