PLEASE READ CAREFULLY.
Happily married now. Same reason for returning... See below.
Returning just for questionnaires and meeting new people who can teach me how to sing, play the piano or guitar or just to have a great laugh with.
OLD PROFILE : 10-2011
First and foremost, I'm not perfect. I'm not the type who you'd parade to your friends as if you won an award or a trophy. I am an average looking girl looking for an average looking guy.
People here on Okcupid are friendly, that's for sure. But I think I'll pass on the friendship thing if your real intention is something else. I'm an honest person and I expect honesty in return.
I'm the type that keep promises and as much as possible do what I say. I might postpone some dates but I'll make sure I'll make it up to you, if you let me of course unless you take it as a negative thing then we can go on our separate ways.
One thing I am proud being me is that I was never consumed by money or any material things that blinded other women what truly matters. I value attention, time, affection, respect, trust and honesty more than anything else.
I give 100% of me and I expect that same effort atleast. If you can't give that...please stop reading and move along. Let's save each other's time for the right person.
Below is me and what I am really looking for:
1. I'm a homebody type. I don't care if you are sporty, outgoing as long as you wont drag me in your gig. I'll be happy to be just a support on whatever you wants to achieve.
2. I'm a movie buff. If you can't stand staying with me on weekends, just watching movies all day, then I'm not your type.
3. My family is important to me. But you will always be my priority.
4. I like my job. And it's very important that you like yours. It's not healthy if you keep on complaining about it, it's annoying. I will not push you or tell you to do something else or make more money. I just want to see you happy every time you come home to me.
5. I don't like someone who smokes. I take care of my body and health is a priority. I want someone to grow old with. I have no plan of having someone that will make me a widow at a young age.
6. I thought its ok to have someone with kids. I am wrong. Sorry guys. I have to admit that I am an attention seeker. Maybe I'll understand more when I become a mother. But since I am not yet a mom, I prefer someone who doesn't have kids coz I want to be treated like a baby. His one and only.
7. I am respectful. Even if you throw tantrums at me, I'll stay calm and just ignore what you said. But if this tantrums started to become a humilation, I think i have to let you go.
8. I am generous to my love ones, and if I give you something, please dont expect that I want something in return. Period.
9. I am ambitious but it doesn't mean I'll step on somebody's foot just to get ahead. I play fair. If you know where you're going by now, I'll say we are a good match.
10. Please don't waste my time if you know that distance is a hindrance. I prefer someone who is willing to travel and meet me as soon as we feel that it's time. Be a gentleman. Yes, that's right, you bring home a girl after a date without making her feel that it's an obligation but instead make her feel that you want to make sure that she is home safe.
Don't be scared. I am the nicest girl you'll ever meet :)
I am always smiling, talkative, and very trusting in the real world. If you have anything to say, just say it. I won't judge you for saying your thoughts.. I am very understanding, but I'm not stupid, so please don't even think about lying.