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crisisparty

22 / M / Gay / Available

Portland, Maine

His Details

Last Online
Today – 5:09am
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Smokes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Scorpio and it matters a lot
Education
Graduated from high school
Job
Income
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
antiassimilationist, poet, performer, essayist, punk, queer, working at play.
What I’m doing with my life
writing, splitting my time between Maine and the desert like 80/20, idenitfying as disabled with a trans-related injury that is real central to my life, taking care of kids, riding my bike, sitting at my pink desk, catering, bartending, mentoring and facilitating youth writing workshops, crying.
I’m really good at
writing hate mail, telling my friends I love them, having a lot of food allergies, having an underwear collection that is really important to me, math, crying.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
- Derek Jarman, David Wojnarowicz, Audre Lorde, Jean Genet, Ana Bozicevic, Federico Garcia Lorca, Roberto Bolano, Arthur Rimbaud, Frank O'Hara, Bob Flanagan, TS Eliot, Daphne Gottlieb.
- Now and Then, Patrick Swayze.
- Friday Night Lights, One Tree Hill, Dawson's Creek, that kind of thing.
- country music, Run For Cover records, Brand New, Set Your Goals, Bayside, Ceremony, Bruce Springsteen, Bryan Adams, Fleetwood Mac, Yndi Halda, Explosions in the Sky, Black Sabbath, Saosin, Frontier Ruckus, Rihanna, Usher, Nas, Drake.
- smoothies, lemons, meat, kale, pink lady apples, peanut butter, chips chips chips chips chips
The six things I could never do without
punk rock, feelings, homos, radical support networks, having all of my books in one place, days it doesn't rain.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
the space I take up, hugely affirming relationships, chronic pain, food politics and security, consent, archives, trauma, gentrification, healing, how the words "inclusion" and "brave" are never not making me nauseous, resentment for the slam community, ability, poetry, access, One Direction.
On a typical Friday night I am
writing, making pie, drinking liquor casually.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I realize that most of my tattoos are words in capital letters, let me just list them for you in a not embarrassing way: POP PUNK, WITCHBOY, DCLXVI, POETRY, RAGE MORE, BF.
I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 18–40
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners, long-distance penpals, casual sex
You should message me if
you want to talk about gay authors.