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  • Ages 25–40
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My details

Last online
May 8
5' 6" (1.68m)
Body Type
Atheism but it’s not important
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), Chinese (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
A cynic, a realist, hiding an optimist.

I feel really stupid for forgetting I should have come up with a clever user name.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm a political hack. Depending on what you believe, you could say I'm trying to change the world, protecting what we've got, or destroying it. Sometimes I forget which.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
procrastinating. sleeping in. eating.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm an exiled Chicago sports fan. Go Bear, Sox, and Bulls!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Music: PJ Harvey, Radiohead, St. Vincent, Wilco, Yeah Yeah Yeahs, Grimes, Le Butcherettes, the Roots, Yo La Tengo, the Rolling Stones (<1975), Common, Sleater-Kinney

Movies: Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Rushmore, Lost in Translation, Blade Runner, Trust, In the Mood for Love, Chungking Express, Godfather II, Memento, Fargo, Talk to Her

TV: The Wire, Battlestar Galactica, Justified, Mad Men, Wilfred, Community, the Sopranos, Archer, Homeland, the Colbert Report

Books: Elmore Leonard books, Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance, Flannery O'Connor short stories,

Food: Somewhere in between chowhound and foodie; let's try listing a few of my favorites from where I've lived: 1)Mmmm, Chicago (Harold's fried chicken, Tacos al pastor from Pilsen, Italian beefs from Johnnie's, Smoque BBQ), 2) NYC I barely knew you (a good plain slice, Thai at Sripraphai, sea urchin pasta at Marea, Daniel, Sushi Taro, ai di la), 3) DC (peruvian chicken, pho, Korean BBQ).
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1 Quixotic campaigns for social justice
2 Going fast (on 2 or 4 wheels)
3 My passport
4 Music
5 Orange juice
6 Fire
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
unwinding - nothing too crazy: a good dinner, a few cocktails, maybe dinner.
You should message me if
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you're smart, politically liberal, cool, dorky, like to eat, like to do stuff, or just feel like it.