30 Denver, CO
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My self-summary
I am: dorky, thoughtful, prone to dancing, oftentimes playing devil's advocate, snarky, polyamorous, in a non-romantic marriage with my best friend, vegan, analytical, excitable, asexual-ish, and obsessed with my canine companion Jitterbug

I am not: one of the cool kids

Edit: Apparently OKCupid has decided that I am, in fact, cooler than the average lady my age. I have no clue how OKC came up with that. Because seriously, I am a big awkward dork who fails at pop culture.
What I’m doing with my life
Waking up each morning, and making the sorts of decisions that the person who I want to be would make.

Or at least attempting to. It's a bit touch and go.
I’m really good at
-Traveling long-term, on the cheap
-Understanding dog behavior
-Rope bondage
-Manipulating light
-Meeting strangers from the internet
-Vegan magic to make things like lasagna
The first things people usually notice about me
One of the first things that people notice tends to be that I'm tiny. After that, the exuberant flailing seems to be noteworthy.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: I mostly read non-fiction. I've been in a bit of a book lull for way too many months at this point.

Movies/shows: Enamored with most of Joss Whedon's work. I was great at not having a TV until we reached the age of TV on the internet. But hey, I'm better at water cooler conversations about the latest gossip on Orange is the New Black, now!

Music: My go-to Pandora stations are a gothy/industrial dance mix (titled "Music to Dance and Hurt People By"), a Shins-inspired station (titled "Chillaxin"), an oldies station (titled "Dad Would Be Proud"), and a Metric-inspired station that doesn't have a clever name. Left entirely to my own devices while driving, I tend to gravitate toward shitty pop music.

Food: I'm a vegan, and mostly eat the closest thing that I can approximate to a meat-and-potatoes diet. Sometimes I throw some kale in there, just for good measure. If you go out for sushi with me often enough, you will end up trying inari. And then you will thank me.
The six things I could never do without
-Companionship in some form
-A means of self-expression
-Stupid outfits for companion animals
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Most recently? How one goes about meeting technically skillful kinksters without engaging with the established BDSM scene.

Generally? Rope bondage. Sexuality, and asexuality. Gender politics. Dog training. Light. Photography. Evolution. Cognition. Social dynamics. Selection pressures. Externalities.
On a typical Friday night I am
Having an easy-going evening with a couple of friends and a couple of beers. Or doing something else. Definitely one or the other, though.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Sometimes I'm kind of a dictator about spooning. A joyful dictator! But a dictator nonetheless.
You should message me if
We have mutual interests and you think that we could have good conversations. You understand that it's pretty much guaranteed that you will never ever ever get laid by me. You're within 50 miles of Denver or else visit here frequently.

I'm pretty bad at keeping up OKC communication for more than a couple of back-and-forth's. If you sound interesting, I'll probably propose meeting for coffee or beer right from the get go.