Yeah the three things that every woman wants in a guy but don't end up staying with.....fun, loving and nice. Why is that....why do women say that want a nice guy but when they have that they don't want it. So yeah I am a nice guy I do for others and I try to stay positive. I am a rocker at heart but somehow I fit in anywhere. I love who I am and people seem to love it too. You want to get to know me just hit me up. I say things right to the point and I don't pussy foot around.....which is kinda scary that anyone would want to pussy foot around.....unless they are tlaking about a cat and not an actual pussy......because a pussy having a foot is not on my list of things to see.....well actually that might be interesting to see......anyway......there have been times that I said things that could be considered me attacking both men and women and yes I attack men more than women......but I have a friend and while we were talking she really made me think....for those of you that know me you know that making me ponder things usually ends bad but she really has set something in motion.......she told me "Honestly, a woman's word isn't worth much more than a handfull of shit now a days, and I blame YOU!! You tell a guy the absolute truth...from the burning bowels of your heart and soul...and they've heard it all before, and don't believe a fucking word, because of stupid whores who lie and say shit without thinking" Now I find that not only amusing but possibly very true.....not that long ago I posted a blog that stated how I have heard how "Amazing" I am so many times that it seems being an amazing guy is not worth gold anymore but is more equal to oweing the government money........she also said "If you're a bitch, a gold-digger, a cheater, married, full of issues, etc.......OWN UP TO IT, STUPID!! Quit ruining all the men. It sucks having to clean up broken-hearted boys." Again very amusing because I know that someone that ends up with me has to deal with all my baggage just like I have to deal with hers.......I, like this person, is pissed at all the people that have lied....cheated....played head games.....abused......negleted......or just failed to realize what it was they had.......ok she may have not said that directly to me but damn it it was implied.....and I take it as though its to me......I am a nice guy.....at least I like to think so.....hell the last person I dated didn't want to break it off with me because she didn't want to lose me completely.......I have never been friends with any of my ex's in the past......why would I start now.......fuck it I figured lets try it......it is as transparent as ever that what I tried in the past does not work......so I will take a new direction in things......give it a shot......besides its me that has to deal not you or anyone else......now she also realizes that guys are idiots as well cuz she did say "Don't kick them...unless they deserve it!!....Some of you fellas don't listen...you will be kicked" That to me is just awesome........and then she appologized......"You poor guys. That's right...I'm sorry to all of you guys who have ever been lied to and had your hearts shown to you. Even the one's I've done it to. It's not fair. I apologize for 80% of the female gender." Well to friend who said all of this and more importantly the people that have these thoughts.....thank you from the bottom of my heart........Maybe there is hope for me yet........as long as there are women who believe like this......there is a chance. Oh one last thing.....its something that has gotten my attention more and more.....there is a ton of women that have these bumber stickers on their myspace.....cars....windows.....ect. that say all they want is for one guy......just one.....to prove to them they all aren't the same......well......if that is true then don't turn away if you ever meet me.....and follow what it says.

I have a career and I am working on my dream.....I jokingly go by the saying "My dreams and happiness were sick of waiting for me so they left me behind and we are gonna meet up later." Again, want to know what that is just hit me up and I will tell you later.

I really don't know what it is I am good at. I mean there are alot of things that I am good at but I really don't know how to put that in here......guys you will have to judge for yourself.

It is most certainly my eyes. I have always been told that my eyes are beautiful. And with your eyes being the window to a persons soul.....must mean I have a beautiful soul.

Wow I am such a movie buff and I love all kinds of music.....favorite movies would be The Crow, The Usual Suspects, Across The Universe, We Were Soldiers and way to many more to list.....I have a very impressive DVD collection......food wise anything homemade......and love to read just haven't done it much lately

movies, music, food, working, family, friends

alot of things........dear god I could go on and on about this.....I am a blog waiting to happen......lol.....want an example.....lol....ok you asked for it.....this is just one of my many blogs on my myspace.......please read it.....I think you may find it humorous.....today’s theme will be on life and the lessons we learn…..life lessons if you will. So here it is the cliché type blog…..but this is gonna go far beyond what you have ever read before cuz I am gonna talk about things that others would only think……lets start with women shall we. I am talking about women in general….this is not an attack against all women it’s just an attack on some women……if you take offense then it must have hit close to home and maybe you need to reflect on your life so don’t make me seem like an asshole cuz your life is fucked up. So here it goes…..I have a question about women that has been bothering me for some time and I really want an answer so I better get a response…..I have talked to a lot of women and been all over the world and I get the same answer all the time….I ask “What is it the women look for in a guy?” Here is the answers I get…..”I would love to meet a nice guy…..with a good sense of humor….and intelligent…..that treats me good” Now that is a general answer that I get…..usually the most common answer…..there is a few other things that is sometimes said but that is what I get every time I ask that question. Now let me point out some of the problems with this……now I am gonna throw out the obvious one of good looking because we all know that there has to be physical attraction there to even get any further……no I am gonna hit up the others…..Nice guy….my ass…..most guys that are nice get their hearts ripped out due to a woman cheating on them….or breaking up with them…..so on and so forth…..and their reason why…..”They were too nice.” How the fuck do you get to be too nice…..ladies I love ya but that is a bullshit answer and you know it…..lets get to the real truth…..you are used to being treated like shit and you expect it so if a guy is nice then you think they are fucking with your head…..that’s the truth and you know it……number 2……sense of humor…..no you mean your sense of humor….a guy could have a good sense of humor but if you don’t like the jokes he tells or if something that he says is not viewed as funny by you but everyone else thinks he is funny……then he has a good sense of humor….you don’t! Here is a good example I once dated a woman who thought I was hilarious but after awhile she didn’t think I was funny anymore…..but everyone else did. But she said the problem was me…..no it was her. Intelligent…..ok ladies I will give you that one…..a lot of guys can’t hold a convo worth shit….unless it’s about sports so ladies I will give you that one. That treats you good…..well what is treating you good……a guy that does everything for you or is treating you good not mentally abusing you……here is the key…..guys are not mind readers……..tell us what you want…..don’t hint….let me be clear about this……for most guys …..subtle hints don’t work….obvious hints don’t work…..just tell them what it is you want them to do. Ok now I went over those lets also hit on the things that women really want but don’t say…..has a good job…..you won’t say it but women want a guy that is not sitting at home living with his parents…..is it wrong for women to want that…..of course not…just say it though….don’t act like it don’t matter. Is good in bed…….ok you know it as much as I do this is important……a good relationship can go bad real quick if the guy is not good in bed…..again is it wrong……not really…..but again just say it. Ok now that I attacked the women it is only fair for me to do the same to the guys. I won’t even get into what it is that guys want because there is a lot of assholes out there that would just say…..I wanna chick that would put out and just shut up and wouldn’t mind having a threesome. Ok ladies…..I will do it for the good guys…..I am sorry you have to go through that. There I apologized on behalf of the good guys. Guys you also need to read something and have an opinion on things……not sports…..learn something other than sports for god’s sake……you think women want to hear about how your favorite quarterback threw 2 touchdowns and one interception. Unless she is a football fan who the fuck cares…..I am not saying you can’t talk about sports just learn to talk about something other than sports. Have an opinion about things…..this is important when you are dating someone that is somewhat intelligent……if you try to bullshit your way through it…..they will know…..if you don’t know, then say so don’t just agree with her……she will pick up on that. And for the love of God try to take care of yourself…..to many times I have seen guys try and pull off the “rugged” look. Ok if you can rub your hand back and forth on your face and it would get rid of an itch…..it is scratching the shit out of her. Listen to her……women have this way of saying what she wants for Christmas and her birthday like all year……..if you listened you would know and you wouldn’t look like a dumb ass come her birthday by asking “so what do you want for your birthday/Christmas” or worse yet buying her that fucking blender she would never use in the first place. Ladies I could say a lot about guys and what they do wrong but I don’t want to write a book here just hitting on their finer points. Now is all women like the women I described earlier….No. Am I like any of the guys I described…..I hope not. But even though that some of you would not put yourself in any of those categories, you do things that are similar…..even I do. Example…..if a kid were to get his ass kicked by his dad, and every time his dad went to kick his ass he would tell him how he fucked up and and that he was a piece of shit, even that one time that his dad wasn’t gonna kick his ass, if his dad said he fucked up and that he was a piece of shit……that kid is gonna think his ass is getting kicked. Its behavior through training. Everything we do is training, or routine. So if you are used to your guy/girl treating you like shit….you expect it. And even when you find one that don’t your natural urge is to say he/she will and that causes you to ruin it. Somehow someway that’s what happens. Either by slowly withdrawing or just plain out doing something absolutely horrible. I laid my heart out on a few occasions for people to either pick up and hold or to stomp on and crush. I am not the type of guy that lays his heart out like that but for some reason I did it a couple of times. My behavior through training is that I am gonna get so fucked up by this. I fight it but I can’t help but think about it from time to time. Damn these thoughts. So the little life lesson is for you to try and forget the past and to start each day as though it were on purpose.

at home or working

LOL.......well there is alot I could say......so I will give you some FF.......Fun Facts.....lol wow....

- I rarely eat a hot dog without relish

- I look at least ten times better than I did in High School

- I am about 50 pounds bigger.......I was scrawney in school

- I am a huge fan of honest communication

- I love to read comments about my blogs

- I always move onward and upward

- I am not a fan of triangles

- I feel rotten if I don't do cardio

- I occasionally drink Green tea

- I don't stretch as much as I should

- I often desire White Castle

- I sleep wearing only socks

- I tan wearing only a sock

- I always pay cash for misunderstandable purchases

- I desperately need a housekeeper

- I am not very fond of flip-floppers

- I almost never leave voicemails

- I hate when people call and don't leave voicemails

- I prefer boxers to briefs

- I sometimes like to enjoy a nice red wine

- I rarely use turn signals

- I admire the soft faces of females

- I loath having to get up early

- I am not afraid to pass on double yellow lines

- I get extremely annoyed with dial up connections

- I prefer dogs to cats

- I always return text messages... eventually

- I live for meaningful quotes

- I usually exceed the speed limit

- My guilty pleasure is Big Macs

- My favorite season is summer

- I always see the glass half full, not half empty

- My hair grows very rapidly

- I understand why people say MySpace is addictive

- I have had 2 speeding tickets

- I have gotten out of over 40 speeding tickets

- My favorite college sports team is U of M

- I prefer window seating when flying

- I digs Mongolian BBQ's

- I hate not being able to be in control

- I have been on every continent except Antarctica

- I love the scent of candles

- My favorite number is twelve

- I currently have more dreams than memories

- I have a fondness for Pentacles

- I prefer Pepsi over Coke

- I alway order my steak cooked medium

- I absolutely despise stress

- I strongly dislike seafood

- I hate when people stand still on people movers in airports

- I am not a fan of Cheyenne

- I fear midgets.......they are scary

- I often wonder if Clowns ever get depressed

- I think mimes don't talk cause they don't have anything interesting to say

- I wonder if there is a dog that can't lick thier own privates

- I often get people that lust me not love me

- I am addicted to Rock Band

- The tooth fairy scares me....its a legitimate fear.....the bitch goes through my shit looking for teeth.....kinda creepy

ask yourself.........why not?