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31 Palmdale, CA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 22–33
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Dec 20, 2014
Body type
Christianity, and very serious about it
Graduated from university

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My self-summary
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Hi there !

My name is Brandi and I'm excited to meet you ! I'd love to grab a coffee or beer and just have a conversation and a few laughs . I enjoy music, especially live music. Some of my hobbies are painting , reading, writing , and board/ card games. My goal in life is to grow emotionally and spiritually and love people better everyday. I'd love to have someone to do that with, while being random and fun .

I'm a follower of Jesus but far from perfect and working out what that means, everyday , the best I can. Spirituality is very important to me and I'd prefer to date someone who follows Jesus as well. I'm becoming more liberal because the more I learn, the less I know. But I love life better with God. I've tried it without him and things go down hill fast. But I love to talk theology and the meaning of life and all that jazz .

So I need to be upfront and say I'm looking for friendship first. I'm not in a rush and I'd like to get to know ya before being exclusive or even being physical. If you can't respect that, then I'm not the girl for you. Ultimately I want something long term that ends in marriage and I think figuring that out takes time and patience. I'm not a virgin but I'm waiting till marriage to have sex again. I figure I'd put that out there in case that's a deal breaker.
What I’m doing with my life
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I love my life so much and enjoy doing as much as I can to live a life of love and positive influence.
I love writing and a few years ago I graduated from CSUN with a BA in creative writing. I'm working hard towards my dream to become a published writer. Right now I have a blog at and I'm working on two books. I also love creating art, especially painting. I have so many dreams but I'm working a lot right now, in order to be more financially secure. I work part time at a flight school, as an office assistant and I love it. During the week I pick up side jobs like babysitting and house sitting. One of the most fantastical things I'm doing, is being a leader at my church's young adults' group. I'm very involved in my church and I'd love you to join me at service sometime ! I hope to move to Portland Oregon someday to get my masters, work in publishing , and start a church out there. But that's a few years off because I have a lot going on here!

I'm also really close to my family and love hanging out with them and my three adorable nieces !
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Writing, drawing, laughing, eating, not making sense on purpose, and encouraging people :)
The first things people usually notice about me
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My eyes or my fashion... Or if my hair is a bright color I get comments on my hair.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Some of my favorite bands right now are Hillsong United, flyleaf, Gungor, imagine dragons, Emery, starlight mints, Mumford and sons, Fever Ray, The Knife, Avett brothers, Enon, Brand New, Jesus culture, Deas Vail and lots more. My favorite things to read are anything written by Donald Miller or Jon Acuff. My favorite movie is Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless mind. The best shows ever are the Big Bang Theory and What not to Wear, how I met your mother, and vampire diaries. I love sushi, Indian food, and Thai food!!I love cheesecake and chocolate!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Grace, love, family, Music, coffee, cell phone, words, and friends.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
God and writing, my art projects, plans for the college group, and about how strange life is. I have been wondering when and if ill ever get married. I really want to someday and I'm trying not to get cynical about it. The dating scene is quite frustrating . I'd like a bit of romance in my life :)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Well every other Friday I lead a small discussion group for young adults, called UpWords. We wrestle with Biblical topics and how we can live better lives. If you'd be interested in coming that would be rad ! But when I'm not there, I'm either at a concert or movie , or possibly reading at a coffee shop.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have social anxiety ... But I usually hide it well :)
You should message me if
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If you're an outgoing, funny, strange, passionate , imperfect follower of Jesus, and you want to make a friend that might turn into something more :) Also message me if you're not a follower if Jesus and you wanna be friends and hang out ! I look forward to meeting you !