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Hi there !
My name is Brandi and I'd love to grab a coffee or beer and just
have a conversation and a few laughs . I enjoy music, especially
live music. Some of my hobbies are painting , reading, writing ,
and board/ card games. My goal in life is to grow emotionally and
spiritually and love people better everyday. I'd love to have
someone to do that with, while being random and fun .
I'm a follower of Jesus but far from perfect and working out what
that means, everyday , the best I can. Spirituality is very
important to me and I'd prefer to date someone who's also a
So I need to be upfront and say I'm looking for friendship first.
I'm not in a rush and I'd like to get to know ya before being
exclusive or even being physical. If you can't respect that, then
I'm not the girl for you. Ultimately I want something long term
that ends in marriage and I think figuring that out takes time and
patience. I'm not a virgin but I'm waiting till marriage to have
sex again. I figure I'd put that out there in case that's a deal
What I’m doing with my life
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I love my life so much and enjoy doing as much as I can to live a
life of love and positive influence.
I love writing and a few years ago I graduated from CSUN with a BA
in creative writing. I'm working hard towards my dream to become a
published writer. Right now I have a blog at
howtomakeafruitsalad.com and I'm working on two books. I also love
creating art, especially painting. I work part time at a flight
school, as an office assistant and I love it. During the week I
also substitute teach at the high school district. I'm very
involved in my church and I'd love you to join me at service
I'm also really close to my family and love hanging out with them
and my three adorable nieces !
I’m really good at
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Writing, drawing, laughing, eating, not making sense on purpose,
and encouraging people :)
The first things people usually notice about me
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My eyes or my fashion... Or if my hair is a bright color I get
comments on my hair.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Some of my favorite bands right now are Emery, lyleaf, Gungor,
imagine dragons, starlight mints, Mumford and sons, Fever Ray, The
Knife, Avett brothers, Enon, Brand New, Jesus culture, Deas Vail
and lots more.
My favorite things to read are anything written by Donald Miller or
Jon Acuff. My favorite movie is Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless
mind. I don't have much time for tv but I'm working my way through
Gilmore girls, and the following. My fav is parks and rec. I love
sushi, Indian food, and Thai food, but also enjoy a good burger and
beer. Recently I'm trying to eat healthier, which is hard because I
love cheesecake and peanut butter with chocolate!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Grace, love, family, Music, coffee, cell phone, words, and friends.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
God and writing, my art projects, plans to help those in need, and
about how strange life is. I've been making a lot of changes in my
life recently , like switching churches, giving up ministries I
started, in order to pursue writing and painting. I've also
considering going to school again. I've been thinking a lot about
new goals and how to reach them.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Well every other Friday I host a small group for young adults,
called UpWords. But when I'm not there, I'm either at a concert or
movie, or possibly reading/writing at a coffee shop.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have social anxiety ... But I usually hide it well :)
You should message me if
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If you're an outgoing, funny, strange, passionate , imperfect
follower of Jesus, and you want to make a friend that might turn
into something more :)
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