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31 Palmdale, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 22–33
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

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Last online
Today – 3:56am
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Christianity, and very serious about it
Graduated from university
My self-summary
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Hi there !

My name is Brandi and I'd love to grab a coffee or beer and just have a conversation and a few laughs . I enjoy music, especially live music. Some of my hobbies are painting , reading, writing , and board/ card games. My goal in life is to grow emotionally and spiritually and love people better everyday. I'd love to have someone to do that with, while being random and fun .

I'm a follower of Jesus but far from perfect and working out what that means, everyday , the best I can. Spirituality is very important to me and I'd prefer to date someone who's also a Christian.

So I need to be upfront and say I'm looking for friendship first. I'm not in a rush and I'd like to get to know ya before being exclusive or even being physical. If you can't respect that, then I'm not the girl for you. Ultimately I want something long term that ends in marriage and I think figuring that out takes time and patience. I'm not a virgin but I'm waiting till marriage to have sex again. I figure I'd put that out there in case that's a deal breaker.
What I’m doing with my life
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I love my life so much and enjoy doing as much as I can to live a life of love and positive influence.
I love writing and a few years ago I graduated from CSUN with a BA in creative writing. I'm working hard towards my dream to become a published writer. Right now I have a blog at and I'm working on two books. I also love creating art, especially painting. I work part time at a flight school, as an office assistant and I love it. During the week I also substitute teach at the high school district. I'm very involved in my church and I'd love you to join me at service sometime !

I'm also really close to my family and love hanging out with them and my three adorable nieces !
I’m really good at
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Writing, drawing, laughing, eating, not making sense on purpose, and encouraging people :)
The first things people usually notice about me
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My eyes or my fashion... Or if my hair is a bright color I get comments on my hair.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Some of my favorite bands right now are Emery, lyleaf, Gungor, imagine dragons, starlight mints, Mumford and sons, Fever Ray, The Knife, Avett brothers, Enon, Brand New, Jesus culture, Deas Vail and lots more.

My favorite things to read are anything written by Donald Miller or Jon Acuff. My favorite movie is Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless mind. I don't have much time for tv but I'm working my way through Gilmore girls, and the following. My fav is parks and rec. I love sushi, Indian food, and Thai food, but also enjoy a good burger and beer. Recently I'm trying to eat healthier, which is hard because I love cheesecake and peanut butter with chocolate!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Grace, love, family, Music, coffee, cell phone, words, and friends.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
God and writing, my art projects, plans to help those in need, and about how strange life is. I've been making a lot of changes in my life recently , like switching churches, giving up ministries I started, in order to pursue writing and painting. I've also considering going to school again. I've been thinking a lot about new goals and how to reach them.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Well every other Friday I host a small group for young adults, called UpWords. But when I'm not there, I'm either at a concert or movie, or possibly reading/writing at a coffee shop.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have social anxiety ... But I usually hide it well :)
You should message me if
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If you're an outgoing, funny, strange, passionate , imperfect follower of Jesus, and you want to make a friend that might turn into something more :)