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csarky

20 / F / bisexual / Single

Austin, Texas

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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 5" (1.65m).
Body Type
Average
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating
Smokes
Yes
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Atheism but not too serious about it
Sign
Leo but it doesn’t matter
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Hospitality / Travel
Income
Less than $20,000
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Dislikes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Japanese (Okay), German (Poorly)

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I am sharp, polite, and contradictory.

My Self-Summary

I'm not actively looking for much here. I like the quizzes and am not averse to short term dating.

I'm twenty and I spend a lot of time reading murder mysteries, drinking coffee, and trying to improve my skills at whistling. I can't really whistle at all.

Sometimes I sound very snobby, but I believe in the degree of relativity that prioritizes personal enjoyment and standards above the social norm. If you're enjoying something, then that's what matters most.

I don't like:
beards
camo
Wal-Mart
Crocs
Tory Burch
olives
sports
4chan

I do like:
pastries for breakfast
cooking
your mom
globes and maps
BookPeople
sharing cigarettes
What, Waffles, TehConnection
sleeping all day

I'm not athletic, or, contrary to OKC's belief, very spontaneous.

I like to be blunt, I like to be mean and tease only those people I already like, I like going downtown if someone else is driving and will sneak me a drink. I like beer and I like whiskey sours.

Some of my favorite fashion designers are Matthew Williams, Alexander Wang, Limi Feu, McQueen (natch), Lanvin and Jean Charles de Castelbajac.

I believe that a little consideration and attempts at empathy--imagining a situation from someone else's perspective, drawing relations but not perfectly identical comparisons between situations and people--would help us all be a little kinder.

Tell me something about you.

What I’m doing with my life

Taking a year off (from January to January) from college to improve my mental health and gild my resume with minimum wage jobs waiting tables and serving coffee. That is what I am doing now.

Previously I went to liberal arts college in NY. Currently have junior standing.

Providing my own stream of nonrevolutionary catty fashion commentary @ fashionfork.blogspot.com

I’m really good at

reading books really quickly, asking questions, holding my liquor, being blunt, speaking Japanese, summarizing, baking. not very good in big crowds.

The first things people usually notice about me

my short hair. it can get a little crazy.

big words

two tattoos

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Jonathan Strange & Mr Norrell, anything Murakami or Ha Jin, Grotesque, Grass for My Pillow, Kokoro, Eugene Onegin, Fathers and Sons, Heat, Out Stealing Horses, Tales of a City, Sue Grafton's Alphabet series, anything by Kate Ross or Dorothy Sayers, Flannery O'Connor, Villette, American Gods (Neil Gaiman), The Children's Hospital

Fiona Apple, Feist, Regina Spektor, The Knife, Beirut, Rufus Wainwright, Lykke Li, Crystal Castles, Broken Social Scene, Andrew Bird, Madeleine Peyroux, Patrick Wolf, Spoon, Fever Ray, Sage Francis, Scroobius Pip, The Thermals, Jeff Buckley, Dir en grey, MUCC, Sufjan Stevens, Voxtrot, Boards of Canada, El Perro Del Mar, Taken By Trees, Joanna Newsom, Hot Chip, Martha Wainwright, Neko Case, 6955, Nullsleep, Son Lux, Xiu Xiu

avocados, peanut butter, Nutella (with peanut butter?), Thai iced coffee, toast, vegetarian BLTs, spaghetti, coffee, artichoke hearts

The six things I could never do without

doing without eventually becomes more about doing with what little you have.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

nothing else other people don't already think about, although most people probably don't think about my cats.

On a typical Friday night I am

drinking beer at home or with other people, ready to sleep in tomorrow morning. sometimes i go see movies. i am willing to accept invitations to go do something on Fridays, because that's one of the evenings i have off work!

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

i don't like people unwarrantedly knowing about my life, so humor and teasing are ways to keep people out and me entertained.

You should message me if

you have something more to say than 'ur cute'
you think we can make clever conversation
you love The Subliminator as much as i do
you are replying to a message in which i called you cute

all of the above have been proven to apply.