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30 Brooklyn, NY Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 28–34
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 9:10am
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Japanese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Random useful things to know about me: I'm a writer, but not the unemployed, basement-dwelling kind. I have an agent and some published stories. I used to be a teacher at a university, and I'm trying to get back into a classroom again. I love bars, but only ones where I can hear you talk. I always want to go out to see and discover new things in New York, but I get bored doing it by myself. I love travel but prefer road trips to flying. The most beautiful place I've ever seen is Thessaloniki, Greece (the least beautiful is Gary, Indiana). I have a tattoo on my left shoulder of a compass rose, flame, and apple. Everything I want in my music is effectively summed up by the song "I Know It's Pathetic But That Was The Greatest Night Of My Life" by Sun Kil Moon. I'm really idealistic and I hate irony, so a lot of people end up thinking I'm naive. I'm also pretty old-fashioned about a lot of stuff, especially relationships. I don't understand why the way we fall in love at seventeen is something most people find embarrassing and go out of their way to avoid, and I don't think I ever will.

Probably the single best way to sum myself up is to say that I'm Steve Carell's character from Seeking A Friend For The End of The World.
What I’m doing with my life
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I just moved to New York late last year to be closer to the literary scene, and also to live in a place where I can get all my meals, laundry, pet food, and alcohol delivered to my apartment. At the moment I'm working two jobs to pay the bills, a law firm during the day and a tutoring center on nights and weekends. In my free time I try to make it to readings and other artsy stuff. I have several finished novel manuscripts and I'm working on getting two of them published. I just recently had a couple stories performed at KGB Bar, and another story place in the top fifteen of a contest with Glimmer Train, all of which was amazing. I'm currently working on getting back into teaching, which is the only thing other than writing that I really love.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
First drafts. Balderdash. Recalling names of albums, including ones I've never owned. Listening to people talk about their day and actually being interested. Making fun of bad movies. Karaoke. Not taking shit seriously. Taking shit seriously.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I like any book that's well written and not self-consciously sad or depressing. Ironically, my favorite piece of writing isn't even a book; it's the last letter written by Sullivan Ballou to his wife during the Civil War.

I like pretty much all movies not directed by dudes whose names start with Michael and end with Bay.

I'm super traditionalist about music. My mom raised me on The Beatles and John Denver, and later I raised myself on mid-90s alt rock and second-wave punk. So shockingly I'm really into guitars and passionately against anything with synthesizers. Autotune drives very small knives into my heart.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how I'm making use of my time, and if I could do it better.

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