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cspencer1

44 M Cincinnati, OH

My Details

Last Online
May 5
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
Trying to quit
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Working on university
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Has dogs and dislikes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I've spent most of my life gaining knowledge. While I have a very logical, rational side to me, the thing that drives me the most is my writing. I write for myself, but wouldn't mind being published some day.

I have a great sense of humor, but it's not immediately noticeable. My humor stems from sardonic or ironic places, and it is very dry. I love to laugh and be goofy with someone who likes laughing and being goofy.

While I believe that physical aspects of relationships are very important, I also think that body intimacy should be equal to mind intimacy. I like discussing history, politics, science, pop culture, etc.

I am intelligent, driven, and artistic
What I’m doing with my life
Right now I am an owner of a small business in Clifton. We are struggling in the economy, but we've made it one whole year!

I spend a lot of time making sure my business stays open, but I am also doing other stuff...

I have written a screenplay (and have a bit-part in it) that is being produced locally this summer. Low-budget, but hopefully with film-festival worthiness.

I am writing computer software for my business. Sounds unsexy, but I might be able to sell it to other businesses of my type (we are an Internet Cafe and a coffee shop).

Taking the odd moment to get away and stare at the stars.
I’m really good at
I have been told that I am a fantastic writer. I think that while I might be skilled, I have never been PAID for it. This is probably due to the fact that I write for myself more than I write for money. My writing is deeply personal to me.

I HAVE been paid for my computer programming work. I was a professional in the information technology field for about 10 years before I opened my own business. I treat programming like an art form...a sculpture rather than a structure like a bridge. I program computers like a Jazz musician plays the sax.

I am really good at debate. I don't view the objective of debate as proving myself right. I use debate to learn from others, to get alternate viewpoints and ideas.
The first things people usually notice about me
I am overweight. I've been told I have expressive eyes.

I have a strong personality, but the first thing people notice about me is that I am reserved around people I don't know. Once I get warmed up, however, I can be pretty loose and goofy.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books -
Neuromancer by William Gibson
"Lord of the Rings" and "The Hobbit" by JRR Tolkien
I really like everything Heinlein wrote, and I love Alastair Reynolds.
I can switch between high fantasy to hard science fiction without batting an eyelash. I also voraciously read nonfiction.

Movies -
Star Wars, Evil Dead (all 3), Akira, Saving Private Ryan, A few Good Men, Unforgiven, Fantastic Planet, etc. Pretty much any genre of film is okay with me...except Chick Flicks. (Even that has an exception...Moulin Rouge.)

Music -
I listen to anything from Celtic, World Music, SOME rap, rock and roll, Industrial, electronic music. The only 2 genres of music I can't take a lot of is gangster rap (or any rap that is misogynistic, racist, violent, glorifies drugs, etc) and country/western.

Food -
I am a meat and potatoes man. I like good, solid American food. Steak, salad, pizza, hamburgers, pasta, etc. I'm not really into seafood at all, or in exotic oriental tastes.
The six things I could never do without
I can never do without the means to write.

I can not do without my dog, Fred.

I can not do without books.

I can not do without music. I need a soundtrack for my life.

I can not do without my friends and family.

I can not do without air/food/water/shelter.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I do think a lot about my business. I hope it becomes more successful so I can think a bit less about it.

I also think a lot about my current writing project. I'll often stare off into nothingness. That means I'm in another place and time with my characters.

I spend a lot of time educating myself, and integrating new facts with my old assumptions. I don't have a settled mind, nor do I think I have all the answers. I like making best guesses, though.
On a typical Friday night I am
Resting up, catching up on sleep and hobbies. I'll probably write a bit. I work very hard during the week, so Fridays are a chance to be still and contemplate.

If there is a good movie coming out, I'll probably go to see it. I'm not really much for clubbing/dancing. I love to dance, but don't like the crush of the dance floor.

Most of all, I recharge my batteries and get myself prepared for the next week.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am quite willing to let someone get to know me, and these kinds of details, at a comfortable pace. Once I get to a place of trust with someone, I'm pretty much an open book.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 27–50
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
If you think you could be attracted to an overweight guy who has a strong intellectual streak.

Although I think friendship is an important component of a relationship, I am looking for a romance. I'm looking for someone who is in the same life-place that I am at, looking for a person to have a physical AND intellectual relationship with.