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Last online
May 25
Hispanic / Latin, White
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body type
Buddhism, and laughing about it
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Working on Ph.D program
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)
My self-summary
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I work to new age music and dance to blues. I occasionally spell like a Brit. I dream about how subtle changes can change so much. I'm sort of a counterexample to the introvert-extrovert dichotomy, because I am one part party organizer and two parts quiet contemplater.

I'm from New York city, but my favorite place was Edinburgh, and I stopped off in Chile for a few months before arriving in big, bustling Urbana-Champaign.
What I’m doing with my life
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Following graduation from college...

First, a friend of mine and I founded a tech startup. We got seed funding and moved our base of operations to Santiago, Chile. Then we failed. I determined that the tech industry wasn't quite right for me.

Now I am studying quantum physics for a PhD.

Recently, I have begun to meditate regularly.
I’m really good at
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...things that will seem funny in retrospect.

I am somewhat of a jack-of-all-trades in dance: swing, break, blues, contra, and capoeira. I have a yellow belt in judo and a blue-purple belt in chang chuan fa. While physics has long been my academic center, my most influential bit of study was the class I took in solo performance (theatre). I always love being in front of an audience.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I have pointy elf ears. Also, you might see me breakdancing - that tends to make a lasting first impression.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Spices: tumeric, jalepeno, cinnamon, cardamom, mesquite, ginger, hing, Sriracha, paprika, cumin, curry, basil

Books: The Brothers Karamazov, Neverwhere, After Dark (and most things by Murakami), Vineland

Theater: Avenue Q, Pericles, The Complete Works of Shakespeare (Abridged), The Other Shore

Movies: Scott Pilgrim vs. The World, Fight Club, Mean Girls, Pi, Dead Men Don't Wear Plaid, Weekend, Coup de Trochon, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, The Proposition, Paprika

Music: The Submarines, The Pixies, Miike Snow, Sufjan Stevens, Cristabel and the Johns, A Sunny Day in Glasgow, Los Campesinos, Ratatat, The New Pornographers, Yeah Yeah Yeahs, Diplo, Vampire Weekend, Bombay Bicycle Club, Kid Cudi, Perpetual E-motion, Serph, Feint, Justin Vanderberg, Takashi Suzuki, Gorillaz, Ludovico Einaudi, Stanton Lanier

TV: hmm... I don't usually watch TV shows by myself - it's just not satisfying enough when there are so many other things to do. Here's an idea: I will watch whatever you will watch with me, especially if it is comedic.

Possibly Look Around You would be a good start to the style of TV I most enjoy. Also, the BBC Sherlock is fun.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Walking in falling snow.
Nights that seem to have no morning.
Good music for bad times.
Shade on bright days.
The number 3.
Warm evenings.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
the true meaning of things. Since I study quantum mechanics by day, I often find myself thinking about what must be true in order for physics to work the way it does. I am very curious about what might distinguish a deterministic "clockwork" universe from a non-deterministic one. I often wonder what allows the observation of consciousness and the perception of a self, and what sort of physics could possibly support such things.

I am also constantly on the search for links between ideas. Art-science crossovers are a personal favorite.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
On an ordinary Friday, I'll probably be at at Figure One (art gallery), The Blind Pig, or good old Murphy's. I ran a few physics grad happy hours over the past year, which tended to mean Crane Alley or (unfortunately) Quality Bar.

I try not to get too typical - each weekend is an opportunity to see something or meet someone. more. More exotic favorites of mine are the occasional swing dance party, the annual insect film festival / petting zoo over at the entomology dept, and that time Ok Go came to Urbana to play at Canopy.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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When I was a baby, I pooped in the bathtub and tried to blame it on the cat.
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