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39 Chicago, IL Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 37–45
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
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5′ 2″ (1.57m)
Body type
A little extra
Catholicism, and laughing about it
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Sales / Marketing
Rather not say
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Has dogs and dislikes cats

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My self-summary
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hello! i am originally from north carolina and have lived quite a few places including nyc, kentucky...a season in montana;) the adventurous spirit is part of growing up a military child. i have fallen in love with chicago...even in the winter;) i feel like there is always something new and fun to explore and it would be great to meet someone who is up for the challenge with me!

i have varied interests including checking out the farmers market on saturday morning with my pup, hitting up a new restaurant in the city, or planning a long wknd to a new locale. I love to travel and it would be great to meet someone who enjoys that as well. I'm successful, which shouldn't turn you off and I'm not thin but enjoy trying new ways to stay active. I just signed up for tennis lessons this spring;)

i have tried online dating off & on and met some nice guys but haven't met someone that clicked long term. i figured it was worth another try and see what happens from there.

my friends would say i am fun, honest, loyal, and very extroverted! admittedly i think chemistry plays a significant role in relationships. however, i am attracted to someone with a great sense of humor who is ambitious but doesn't take themselves too seriously. i'm looking for someone with an optimistic outlook on life who possesses a quiet confidence. it would be a bonus if you were at a place in your life where you wanted something more out of a relationship and were looking for someone to explore that with you.
I look forward to hearing from you! cheers;)
What I’m doing with my life
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currently working in advertising...still not 100% sure what I want to be when I grow up:) in the meantime i try to give back with volunteering....always looking for someone to join me or introduce me to new ideas. I have a golden retriever who is usually by my side so a love or tolerance of big, hairy dogs is a must;)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
making people laugh and feeling welcome; organization; taking risks;)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
is my smile...basically always laughing (too loud for some) or joking around about something;)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
close girlfriends; all four seasons; a balance of nature and the concrete of the city; my first cup of coffee in the morning; great bottle of wine; my pup & my iPhone (sad but true;)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
winding down the week with a few glasses of wine. cooking dinner solo and hanging w/the pup;)
You should message me if
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you are looking for more than a hookup and want to grab a drink and learn more about each other...

you are not looking for someone to complete yourself but someone to compliment yourself...

if you contact me I will respond even if it's to say I don't think we are a match (unless you are vulgar)