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61 M Oklahoma City, OK

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6′ 6″ (1.98m)
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Graduated from masters program
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Has kids
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
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I'm currently on under the same name and wrote a lot, so I'll keep it shorter here.

I am ~6-6 barefoot, 225#. I try to work out five days a week in a gym for my health and some tone but sometimes business won't let me. I take some pride in trying to be healthy and somewhat fit so I prefer women who are slender or toned regardless of whether it's due to effort or genetic luck.

I come from a pragmatically analytical family with a collection of degrees, we were above-average athletes, and we all think we're funny too. Although I'm serious about my work I laugh easily by nature, and it also balances me. I received my grad degree from OU (MBA) and my undergrad degree from OSU (geoscience). Also attended Kansas University where I played a little basketball, conducted social research and had too much fun.

Most would probably agree that I am a nice guy, a gentleman (damn parents), principled but open minded, usually flexible and adaptive, have some depth and breadth, usually friendly to everyone (unless they've earned a different approach), an encourager and a toucher. I don't need much attention but I'm happy to give it. I'm not good at exaggerating, pretending, or using people...makes life and business more challenging but I stubbornly take pride in it.

Have lived a more interesting life than some with a wide range of experiences. Have been to a fair number of countries and lived in Northern New Mexico for ten years. One takeaway: there are a lot of nice people everywhere you go and there are always a small percentage of really irritating people. I could live almost anywhere and do my work, and I'm seriously considering a move somewhere.

I assume you thought about your preferences so if I do not fit within them (your preferred age, near you) I probably will not contact you. And if you contact me do not be insulted if I do not answer quickly because I am involved in a business endeavor that I have invested a lot of time and money into and I want an adequate return.

I answered a lot of questions with supplemental comments to give some insight into me (usually did not put any emphasis on what I expect from others). Please understand I was almost thirty when I married, I'm more mature now (and have daughters), and not looking for conquests to boost my ego - I'm quite comfortable with who I am (but not satisfied). I have not dated much in the last 7+ years so my answers about levels of intimacy are not due to a lot of recent activity.
What I’m doing with my life
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I try to stay mentally engaged. I spend most of my work time on oil and gas but also deal with some real estate. I occasionally do some volunteer work.
I’m really good at
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Analytics (information and data). Smiling and laughing. Listening. Interacting with diverse people (including different cultures, races, etc.). Discussing a wide range of topics and I will usually give reasoned opinions or will ask questions to learn more. Making people feel comfortable (unless they have earned a different approach).
The first things people usually notice about me
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Probably height. Maybe smile or laugh if I'm not standing up -- I don't know, I haven't asked anyone.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I enjoy learning and understanding. Mostly read non-fiction books, periodicals, and online resources including business, science, history, geopolitics, psychology/sociology, etc. When I watch tv, which is not often, it is usually comedy, science, history, etc. I have not seen many movies in the recent past. I will eat almost anything except red beets, boiled spinach and a few other things (but I would if I was starving).
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Heart, lungs, brain, stomach, intestines, other.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
A lot of things.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
There is no consistent pattern but I don't go on a lot of dates -- different is more interesting to me than average, and is harder to find.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I would have to think about this but I'm not going to take the time just to answer this question. I'm usually an open book on almost everything.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 50–65
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
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Any of the above triggers your interest and/or curiosity.