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29 Cary, NC Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18-45
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 5:15pm
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
5' 10" (1.78m)
Body Type
A little extra
Catholicism but it’s not important
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
Has cats
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I’m a confident, soft spoken guy who is often told that I’m mature for my age. This doesn’t mean I don’t like being silly and spontaneous, because I do. I’m just rational and responsible at the same time. If you’re tired of guys with the attention span of a goldfish, consider me. I just might be the perfect antidote.

If I had to choose just three words to describe myself, I’d pick respectful, confident, and thoughtful. People close to me would probably also add smart and funny to that list, but I’ll leave that up to you to decide. I can come off as reserved sometimes, but the truth is that I’m just thinking before I speak.

It doesn’t take a lot to make me happy. I enjoy quiet nights cooking and watching movies at home, but I can always be persuaded to go out too. What I do is honestly less important to me than who I’m with.

I’m hoping to meet a mature, outgoing woman who shares some of my interests and introduces me to hers. The single most important thing to me in a partner is energy. It’s a quality that’s a little hard to pin down, but to me it’s equal parts enthusiasm, optimism, open mindedness, and adventurousness.

Does this sound like you? I hope so. I look forward to meeting you very soon.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am professional golf instructor. I work out of a golf club here in Charlotte and give lessons to golfers of varying levels from beginners all the way up to professionals.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Communicating what I want to get done to someone, or resolving conflicts. I am also a really good listener and can often offer solutions to people in a perspective they have never heard of before.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My beautiful blue eyes. I am not cocky and arrogant how that comment sounds, well maybe I am about my eyes but it ends there :)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The thought that so many people in the world struggle to get all of these.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Uptown Charlotte having a great time with the best friends in the world.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have an OK Cupid account
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