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ctl2102

33 F Somerville, MA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 4:02am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other
Sign
Leo
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Other
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
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Friends have described me as a sweet, but sassy kind of gal. I'm genuine, down to earth, and open-minded. I value honesty, communication, and a sense of connection in my relationships. I'm a Social Worker and passionate about what I do because it gives me a greater sense of purpose and meaning.

I consider myself an extroverted introvert if that makes sense. I'm definitely an INFP on the Myers Briggs. I love being social and being around people, but I also need my "me" time. I think I'm pretty balanced - I can be funny and reflective, organized and spontaneous, motivated, but know how to relax. I love trying new things, traveling and meeting all sorts of people. I like adventures and stepping outside of my comfort zone, which I have done quite a bit of in my life, because it always makes me grow as a person.

I'm really content with the life I've built for myself, but it would be nice to have a partner to share it with. I'm looking for someone who's also pretty balanced, kind and adventurous. Also, just to be clear, I'm not looking to rush in to anything, but I am ready and looking for a long term relationship. Would love to meet someone who's on the same page.
What I’m doing with my life
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As I said I'm a Social Worker, so obviously I'm in it for the money ;) Besides work, I'm also exploring my neighborhood and Boston in general, trying new things, traveling, writing, staying active (lately that's been running, yoga and Zumba) getting myself into ridiculous situations that always end up being a good story later, trying to meditate, finding other things to do instead of meditating, building relationships with the people who are most important to me, and just trying to figure it all out.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Organizing, reading people, naming that tune, listening, recognizing faces and voices, making people feel comfortable, staying active, dancing, making people laugh, candlepin bowling, writing, attention to detail, laughing at myself and finding humor in day to day life.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
The fiery locks! Being a redhead makes me stand out, which can be a good thing (when someone's looking for you in a crowd) or a bad thing (when you want to hide)! People have also said I have a "calming presence." Oh and some of my clients have told me that I remind them of the Queen of Morocco...no, seriously...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: The Hunger Games, Eat Pray Love, Tuesdays with Morrie, The Color Purple, The Alchemist

Movies: So many...Good Will Hunting, Garden State, Eternal Sunshine Of The Spotless Mind, Amelie, Shawshank Redemption, Royal Tenenbaums, Love Actually, Elf, Before Sunrise/After Sunset

Shows: The Office, The Daily Show, Downton Abby, How I Met Your Mother, The Mindy Project, Orange is the New Black, Game of Thrones

All sorts of music: Dave Matthews, Coldplay, The Beatles, Adele, Mumford and Sons, MGMT, Ray LaMontagne, Florence & the Machine, Bob Marley, The Strokes, Fun, My Morning Jacket, The Shins, Jack Johnson, Bruno Mars, Beyonce, Miles Davis to name a few...

Food: Italian, Indian, Thai, Mexican....and I am definitely addicted to cheese!!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Friends and family
music
dancing
laughter
traveling
cheese :)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Soo many things...what I need to do on my to do list (way too many lists - I may have a problem), where I'm going to travel next and daydreaming about it, relationships and love, songs that are stuck in my head, what I'm doing this weekend and who I'm going to make plans with, what I'm going to eat next. I spend a lot of time thinking about the future....and how to be more present...you can see how those two would conflict a bit...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
It depends...could be checking out a new restaurant or bar with friends, hosting my book club and consuming lots of wine and cheese, watching my latest Netflix movie...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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When I was younger I owned a purple shirt that said "YOU GO GIRL" in big yellow letters that took up the entire shirt...I have the picture to prove it. And actually, I'm not embarassed to admit that :)

Oh and I occasionally have dance parties by myself at home when a good song comes on...makes me feel like Hugh Grant in Love Actually :)
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 29–39
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
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Cause carpe freakin' diem! OR if any of this sounds like you: You have depth and a real passion for life, you're quick with conversation, but you're a good listener too, you make people laugh (sooo important!), you like to try new things and explore, you're intellectual, but not pretentious, you're a caring and kind person, you're striving for balance...Bonus points if you can dance :)