Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
QUICK ORDER OF BUSINESS - I am a lesbian and I do not date men. Not
sure what's up with my settings or why men are messaging me BUT
please men be advised that I am a lesbian and will not respond to
men who message me even for friendship (because I'll never believe
you are actually messaging me to be my friend).
MY SELF SUMMARY
ENFJ---Extravert(56%) iNtuitive(38%) Feeling(62%)
.....at work I may lean ENTJ
I'm working on building community and expanding my circle of
friends and loved ones. I'm sure that the majority of my
connections on this site will be new sistah-friends to connect
with, which I count as a blessing. Friendship means a lot to me, as
does finding that special woman to share my life with. I'm always
open to heartfelt connections and genuine friendships. I am
delighted to meet and admire those that share my perspective.
ABOUT ME: I love dancing, languages, intellect, witty mindgasmic
dialogue, dancing, physicality, fun, evening atmosphere, and did I
mention dancing. Serving and sacrificing for the community is
important to me. I believe true love for anyone (or anything)
requires sacrifice and selflessness. I'm easy-breezy, very social,
and I love just chillin, maxin, and relaxin with cool people.
Chao for now.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
on to the next phase aaaaand finally getting around to teaching
myself French...FOR REAL THIS TIME!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
dancing (SALSA IS A BIG FAV!!!!), remembering random useless
phrases in German, Russian, Urdu, Arabic, Japanese, and a myriad of
other forgeign languages that I don't actually speak, smiling,
laughing and making others laugh, and showing empathy. :)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
2-My ability to dance
3-Loyalty (friends & family)
4-Rainy nights & sunny days (that's two I know)
5-Female intimacy (Romantic and Platonic)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
-fulfilling my purpose, being part of the solution (not the
-travel, learning more languages
-my truest self and all my dichotomies
-soul mate, true love, destiny
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I hate taking pictures...cuz I look better in person. :-)
Aaaand my "special note" below is mildly narcissistic because minus
the musician piece....it pretty much describes me. So yeah, I would
date myself in a heartbeat and I'd be my own best friend with
passionate loyalty. Lol.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
1--you are genuine, giving, and want to make meaningful connections
with new people along your journey towards self-actualization and
2--you love music and/or dance, buuuut nightclubs aren't your 1st
choice for a good time.
3--you're versatile, in every sense of the word
4--you want to go with me to get a few new tats!!!! (this would be
big fun for me....I want about 7 more)
5--you speak French and want to be my conversation buddy
6--you wanna hang out in the DMV somewhere....pool, dancing,
drinks, dinner, etc etc etc
**special note** musicians, women who have (and love) tattoos,
dancers, social justice activists, athletic individuals,
extroverts, and multilingual woman are some of my favorite
people....if you fit one or more of these categories you should
definitely message me.
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