49 Salt Lake City, UT
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My self-summary
So...almost fifty, back in Salt Lake County!
But that's okay!!!! I'm happy, I cherish my alone time and my cat, Gato.
I've recently wed a most incredible woman and I could not be happier!
My wife and I are both poly and still maintain our relationships outside of our marriage. Let me be clear, I'm polyamorous.
Currently looking for like minded women for friendship (coffee is great for that!) as my plate is pretty full and I'm content. :-)
All I'm asking for is no cheaters, and not for me but for your partner. That's not cool man!
I am self-deprecating; as such, and will definitely laugh at myself if it warrants it
I've slowed down quite a bit and am no longer the club hopping maniac I used to be.
I've rediscovered health since I've had a brush with high blood pressure and have seen how it has affected my father's health. :-(
I've lost 40 lbs so far and have more to go!
I've discovered the love of FanX SLC/Comic Con.
Let's get to know each other!
What I’m doing with my life
Currently an operations supervisor in a Sandy, UT call center. Love my job and it's day to day challenges.
I'm trying to clean up my credit and debt history because I would like to purchase a condo and settle down permanently.
In the meantime, I'm mostly working, off time dancing in my kitchen while I get ready for work after my workout. Usually during the week I'm on a date with one of my girlfriends.
On weekends I generally cherish my alone time and watch Netflix (I hate Netflix), Hulu and Amazon. I'm a frequent poster on Instagram, Facebook and occasionally Twitter.
Sometimes I still go dancing (once a month if that), meet friends for dinner or small house gatherings, have lunch, see movies or hang out with my "friend" when she isn't or I'm not busy.
I’m really good at
I'm really good at being nice, goofy, silly, shy and polite. I'm terribly organized but I get the job done.

I'm artistic, I like to dance; I am intelligent and a great conversationalist. I enjoy treating a woman as a gentleman should treat a lady.

I'm a chameleon that can adapt to any situation; whether it is a boardroom meeting where I must portray a professional bearing, dining in a five star restaurant or relaxing in a down and dirty bar, I am flexible.

I've found out lately that I'm better at being a leader than I had ever expected and it has opened up ambitions of upper management in me I had never thought of before.

Wishing I was immortal. Not the LOTR elves type of immortality but more the vampire (at least) and preferably the Eternal's type of immortality.
The first things people usually notice about me
My tattoos and my sense of humor. Also I look like an actor, William Adama from Battlestar Galactica who is the actor Edward James Olmos. I got to meet him and it was the coolest thing!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Dune, Lord Of the Rings, Like Water for Chocolate, Stephen King novellas and short stories
Music: 80's, gothic/industrial, classical music, classic rock, alternative, house, electronica, trance, opera, latin
Food: Mexican, Indian, Japanese, Italian, Greek, Chinese, etc etc
Movies: Blair Witch, The Marvel Cinematic Universe, the Christopher Nolan Batman trilogy, Lord of the Rings trilogy, Like Water for Chocolate, etc etc
The six things I could never do without
Freedom, friends, solitude, health, dancing and sex.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The past, the future, what could and what might not be, imaginary worlds and people, beautiful women, fantasies and the world in general.
Recently, my own mortality has come up a lot. I'm not looking forward to old age or what happens after that.
On a typical Friday night I am
I get off at 11:00 PM most Friday nights from work, so I come home catch a movie online and then bed. Exciting right?!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm afraid of death.
You should message me if
You want to be friends, you want no attachments, you want to get coffee, you need a little oddness in your life, you want to bring a new experience to life. You might know what DnD is, you love Comic Con and you're way okay with Anime.