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cubanoconbomba

26 / M / straight / Single

Wayne, New Jersey

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Ethnicity
Hispanic / Latin
Height
5' 6" (1.67m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Short-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
Trying to quit
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Religion
Agnosticism and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Pisces but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from space camp
Job
Computer / Hardware / Software
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Dislikes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), C++ (Poorly)

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I am passionate, geeky, and pragmatic.

My Self-Summary

Highly logical, reasonable, and curious, I am a geek at heart, believing in the power of technology to help mankind solve its problems. I believe in the redeeming qualities of people and the need to balance the natural with the technological. I have little use for ideology or absolutes in my life, with a few exceptions.

That said I think about and enjoy talking about many things including, but not limited to: public policy, current affairs, politics, food and drink, a little art, science, and even occasionally the latest celebrity exploits. (I actually find TMZ quite entertaining.) I also believe change begins with personal responsibility.

I also have a creative side expressed in my second career as a wedding photographer. I find immense satisfaction out of capturing images from the real world, putting on a different set of eyes than other people so I can capture the moment and present it to them in turn, telling them to slow down.....enjoy the moment....notice the beautiful things all around you. Sometimes romantic, sometimes surprising and candid, I hope that there's a little revelatory truth in them. But...I like candids the best because I think they are as close to unvarnished as you can get without having a lot of time to get to know them. If you'd like to help make some candids, please let me know.

Professionally, I'm a disenchanted computer engineer who works in IT 9-5 (such a misnomer these days) and moonlights as a wedding photographer. I love leveraging my geek side to feed my creative side.

What I’m doing with my life

Trying to get my photography business together and become a guerrilla marketing masta!

Also thinking about how I'm going to design my clients' future wedding albums.

Pretending to plan a trip to Cuba.

I’m really good at

I'm told quite often that I'm good at taking photos. I'm both proud of and humbled by my talent. I taught myself almost everything I know about it, so every time I bring my camera along, it's out of passion for the craft. Don't be surprised if I catch you at a funny, fun-filled moment.

I'm also good at fixing your computer.

The first things people usually notice about me

The giant, expensive camera in my hand. Often compared to Kevin Smith. I'm also very hairy.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books: Tom Clancy, The Elegant Universe, Fabric of the Cosmos, The Red Queen, Michael Crichton, Blink, Harry Potter, The Omnivore's Dilemma, The Bourne Trilogy, The Battle for America

Movies: The Fifth Element, Return of the Jedi, Office Space, Indiana Jones, The Professional aka Leon, Heat, The Godfather, Ronin, The Good Shepherd, Collateral, The Score, What Dreams May Come, the new Star Trek and so very many more...

Music: I'm a bit of a casual music mutt, but you can often find me listening to Ben Folds and Coldplay.

Food: I'm an adventurous eater so I'm willing to try almost anything new, but my top favorites are Japanese, Thai and Latin(of course).

TV (because it's not listed): Dexter, True Blood, Burn Notice, Mythbusters, Meet the Press, The Tudors. I'll at least sample anything Sci-fi on TV.

The six things I could never do without

Sight. Touch. The written word. The pixel. The Internet. Cheesecake.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

my flaws, my strengths, how the movements of large business and media affect the masses, the opposite sex, photography, my stock market positions, and the invisible mechanics of the world around me and how it all fits together without us noticing.

On a typical Friday night I am

not doing anything habitual or regular. Sometimes I'm at a movie that just opened, sometimes spending time with friends, or doing something completely random.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I really did graduate from space camp.

You should message me if

...you like learning facts about the world just by hanging out with someone. You enjoy exchanging strong opinions on a wide variety of topics. You want something uncomplicated and low-drama.