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cubbiesseven

30 M Santa Monica, CA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 5:00pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 5″ (1.96m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
When drinking
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Sign
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Relationship Status
Married
Relationship Type
Non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Tall dark and handsome. Suburban Chicago raised.

I am openly married to MrsKisses. I used to provide a short summary of this situation but...well, now I don't. It's a lovely arrangement that requires complete honesty. Ask me about it if you're intrigued - or let me know your thoughts on it. Or anything else.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm trying every day to see rather than look, listen rather than hear, feel rather than touch, and I'm trying to interject only when thoughtful. Or fucking hilarious.
I’m really good at
Reaching the top shelf - bowling - being loyal - having my heart in the right place - being sympathetic/empathetic - relaxing - grand marshaling party parades - the decathlon (probably) - drinking Bud Light - bicycling - tipping - wearing hats.

What I'm bad at: deciding what I want to eat - making the first move - Karaoke - understanding the difference between sympathy and empathy.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm so very tall. I love being tall but lets not talk about it, that's boring.

When I wear my top hat they notice my top hat.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Stream of conscience....and GO!
Potato pancakes -> Mom's spaghetti -> Eggs and beans -> French toast -> Thanksgiving -> Chili's fajitas (yup) -> restaurants with dress codes where excellent food is preeminent but impeccable service is paramount

Home Alone -> Jurassic Park -> Hook -> Irreversible -> The King's Speech -> Big Lebowski -> Tarantino -> Von Trier -> Anderson -> Nolan

Henry Rollins -> Tom Waits -> Gotan Project -> Beirut -> Tom Jones -> Beats Antique -> HAARP Machine -> Nicholas Jaar -> Deadmau5 -> Slayer -> Dan le Sac vs. Scroobius Pip -> DJ Shadow -> Cut Chemist -> RJD2 -> Plaid -> Booka Shade -> Depeche Mode -> Double Dee and Steinski -> Jaga Jazzist -> LCD Soundsystem -> Metronomy -> Slavic Soul Party -> Niwouinwouin -> Ratatat -> Sigur Ros -> Die Antwoord -> Aphex Twin -> Squarepusher -> Pantera -> Soundgarden -> Static-X -> John Valby

And I leave books out not because I don't read but because reading is not a passion for me. I do like owning books that I have read and enjoyed. And I like old books. And I like when the paper feels good in between my fingers, especially when it's close to disintegration and requires a delicate touch or when a dog-earred page from a bygone reader will break off if unfolded. I also like when I find people's old bookmarks - little paper remnants left there for who-knows-how-long, waiting for someone to pick up where the last reader left off and sometimes sharing secrets about someone long dead.
The six things I could never do without
(in no particular order)

Pie.
Days off.
The Cubs.
Physical touch.
Socks (NEVER in bed, however).
Fleeting moments of connection with total strangers.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Cold showers on hot days, nice things to do for loved ones, missing thunderstorms, the World Series, Voyager I & II, Pants Off Dance Off, whales.
On a typical Friday night I am
Drinks with friends or a movie at home.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
When I'm folding the laundry at home I sometimes enjoy doing so in my wife's underwear. This always results in getting off.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 21–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, casual sex