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31 M Santa Monica, CA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 21–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 7:19am
6′ 5″ (1.96m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
When drinking
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them

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My self-summary
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My preschool teacher used to describe me as tall, dark, and handsome. I am at least two of those things to this very day.

Suburban Chicago raised.

I'm openly married to MrsKisses...for us that means we are fully committed to one another while maintaining the liberty to follow our desires no matter where they lie.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm trying every day to see rather than look, listen rather than hear, feel rather than touch, and I'm trying to interject only when thoughtful. Or fucking hilarious.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Reaching the top shelf - bowling - being loyal - having my heart in the right place - being sympathetic/empathetic - relaxing - grand marshaling party parades - the decathlon (probably) - drinking Bud Light - bicycling - tipping - wearing hats.

What I'm bad at: deciding what I want to eat - making the first move - Karaoke - understanding the difference between sympathy and empathy.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm so very tall. I love being tall but lets not talk about it, that's boring.

When I wear my top hat they notice my top hat.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Stream of conscience....and GO!
Potato pancakes -> Mom's spaghetti -> Eggs and beans -> French toast -> Thanksgiving -> Chili's fajitas (yup) -> restaurants with dress codes where excellent food is preeminent but impeccable service is paramount

Home Alone -> Jurassic Park -> Hook -> Irreversible -> The King's Speech -> Big Lebowski -> Tarantino -> Von Trier -> Anderson -> Nolan

Henry Rollins -> Tom Waits -> Gotan Project -> Beirut -> Tom Jones -> Beats Antique -> HAARP Machine -> Nicholas Jaar -> Deadmau5 -> Slayer -> Dan le Sac vs. Scroobius Pip -> DJ Shadow -> Cut Chemist -> RJD2 -> Plaid -> Booka Shade -> Depeche Mode -> Double Dee and Steinski -> Jaga Jazzist -> LCD Soundsystem -> Metronomy -> Slavic Soul Party -> Niwouinwouin -> Ratatat -> Sigur Ros -> Die Antwoord -> Aphex Twin -> Squarepusher -> Pantera -> Soundgarden -> Static-X -> John Valby

And I leave books out not because I don't read but because reading is not a passion for me. I do like owning books that I have read and enjoyed. And I like old books. And I like when the paper feels good in between my fingers, especially when it's close to disintegration and requires a delicate touch or when a dog-earred page from a bygone reader will break off if unfolded. I also like when I find people's old bookmarks - little paper remnants left there for who-knows-how-long, waiting for someone to pick up where the last reader left off and sometimes sharing secrets about someone long dead.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
(in no particular order)

Days off.
The Cubs.
Physical touch.
Socks (NEVER in bed, however).
Fleeting moments of connection with total strangers.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Cold showers on hot days, nice things to do for loved ones, missing thunderstorms, the World Series, Voyager I & II, Pants Off Dance Off, whales.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Drinks with friends or a movie at home.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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When I'm folding the laundry at home I sometimes enjoy doing so in my wife's underwear. This always results in getting off.
You should message me if
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You get me.