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51 Fort Lauderdale, FL Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 40–60
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 4:07pm
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Dislikes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
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I'm so weary of meeting women who say that they don't need a man. I am a strong, sensitive and giving man who likes to be needed. I receive alot of satisfaction from emotionally pampering a woman and letting her lean on me. A woman that works, but can't make it on her own is okay with me, too.

Needy or clingy? Great! I'll love the sugar-coated attention. Show me your vulnerable side and I'll finally have a purpose...a purpose to keep a smile on a good woman.

I don't want an affluent/busy career woman who is buried in her smartphone and overscheduled life...I would be much happier with a lonely everyday woman living a quiet and uncluttered life with very few responsibilities/financial assets.....a woman who sympathizes with my long daily commute and thinks I'm worth the drive.

The woman for me is the empty nester who has raised her children and is now ready to rediscover a simpler time when she still wanted a strong and respected man as a protector and leader.
You've found a faithful, loyal and honest Midwestern man of integrity looking for a good woman who is ready to completely trust again.

I define "a good woman" not in terms of education or money or the contrary!
My desire is to find a beautiful mind and a burning heart.

I believe in giving mature and true love a chance without expecting a first meeting infatuation...Do You?

Mature love isn't a lightning bolt or sudden flash of light that comes into our lives....It's a tiny, but promising spark buried deep
in the clutter of loves promised and loves lost. That hopeful ember's languid flame grows; fanned by the breezes of kind words and loving deeds. Only with patience and care will the flames of passion deliciously and slowly build to a roaring flame that lasts a lifetime...

I own a house in a woodsy and desirable Davie/Ft. Lauderdale neighborhood. Can I find a sweet and feminine lady that's willing to share this home and quiet lifestyle I have created?
Please be willing to travel to Fort Lauderdale and work towards sharing life together in my house (see picture).

Consider me an empty-nester, medical professional and musician that has a lot of love to give and alot to offer....
... a purely romantic man yearning to bring joy to a kindred spirit for the rest of our days.

Simply put, I am hoping for a smokefree woman whose children are grown.
I am serious about this and I wish I could really find a sweet woman for the rest of my life. Is that you?

I know alot of us seem to be okay with the idea of going solo these days, but that's something I just refuse to believe.
Life is too wonderful to walk through this world all alone.
Take my hand and we'll try to find love again!

I love writing's one that's appropriate for the occasion...


Can a true blue heart shine just as bright-
If it sparkles in no one else’s eyes?
No witness to this day’s dance of light,
My emotions, my laughs, my cries.

Unshared memories, beautiful moments
Overlooked in haste.
Like teardrops in the ocean,
Diamonds in the waste.

Lift the covers from your feelings,
Expose your insecure spots.
Show the world what you’re made of-
Share the bravest of your thoughts.

The things that we’re concealing
Will never let us grow.
To throw ourselves wide open
Can bring us more than we’ll ever know.

Open up your arms!
You can show your heart’s still true.
Even if the color’s almost gone-
A Hue of Faded Blue.

Darrin 2003
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Leaving no stone unturned in my search for my last love.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm really good at knowing what keeps a woman happy.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My easy-going demeanor and calming effect on everyone who knows me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Movie - "The Fault in Our Stars"
"Under The Tuscan Sun"
Music - Most all genres.
Food - Mexican food and anything chocolate.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Love/Companionship/Cuddle/Great Kisses
Home Theater/Movies
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Where to find more artists to satisfy my voracious appetite for unique and different music.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Watching Bill Maher and doing Laundry.
You should message me if
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You're searching for an epic love between two kissing cuddlers.