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45 Eugene, OR Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 35–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
May 30
Straight, Heteroflexible, Sapiosexual
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body type
Mostly other
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Pisces, and it matters a lot
Graduated from masters program
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Has dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I have my fingers in many pies, including working as an art therapist/counselor, creating sacred art, leading ritual and being involved in spiritual practice/community.

Nature lover, Music lover, Animal lover (yet, highly allergic to cats); I love to dance, cook with love for people, garden, spend time in nature, make ritual and make art. Interested in cultural creativity, healthy living, sustainability, taking care of Mama Earth, creating community, and traditional foodways including fermentation.

Friends say I'm deep, heart-centered, creative, joyful, funny, connected, quirky, enthusiastic, and wise in uncommon ways.

Other words to describe me are: Good communicator, passionate, compassionate, playful; Strong, independent, community-minded, environmentally and socially conscious, capable, yet flexible and able to compromise and co-create; giving, loving, affectionate and caring partner and great cook;
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Currently, I am trying to learn how to live more simply, move away from the gross commercialism that pervades our culture and move towards living my authentic values.
This summer, I hope to spend much more time in nature, explore swimming holes of the area and go camping, at least a few times. I also want to restore my garden to it's former glory and convert more of it to food production.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
growing vegetables, making homemade pickles, kimchi and saurkraut (lactofermentation), cooking super healthy food that tastes amazing, self-expression, weaving together disparate ideas, people, etc, nurturing relationships and compassionate communication, and getting stray wild birds out of enclosed spaces with a minimum of fuss (bird whisperer :)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
my eyes, my zest for life and my sense of humor
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
ack-- I typed a whole long thing and *Poof* it went into cyberspace!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
homemade lacto-fermented food
music-all of it
dance- all of it
green things like moss and trees
mindfulness and concious breathing
apostrophes and parentheses
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
-What I'm going to cook for dinner and what we need to do, to transcend our current global predicament and evolve, both me personally and the human race
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
celebrating Shabbat, or going out with friends, or being a homebody
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
that I sometimes catch myself thinking about my life as if I were telling my story to Ira Glass, host of This American Life
and am easily disheartened when it comes to dealing with technological problems (see favorites above), although not easily disheartened in other areas
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
a) Why not? It's Winter, which can be lonely and dreary; Wouldn't it be more fun to spend it with someone?
b) you read this and were like, "whoa, she's kinda different, I'd like to get to know her more"
c) you felt a sense of anticipatory excitement from any part of my profile.

~Shalom and Namaste