I love talking about me and for some reason when I write it it sounds so pompous. God I hope I dont come off like that in person shit I'll never get a girlfriend.

I'm 40 something and still havent grown up. My daughters head shrinker says I have Peter Pan syndrome. I think I am a big kid PERIOD. I drink like a fish swear like a sailor. Ha I was a sailor for 20 years. And I fuckin hate my marriage. UPDATE: I have separated form that bad marriage and doing my best to keep my kids safe from all the problems being in a single parent households. We share the kids. I am a very kind person really. Compassionate (really dont believe the little icon with the slash through it) non judgmental and I have alot to give. I need to receive to make it worth my while.

Love all things hockey. However being a NJ boy I am a die hard devils fan first and then a hockey fan second. I do follow the Canes even though I think Peter Karmanos is an ass.

Now the good, bad and ugly about me.

Good

-Cook

-I'll go shopping with you and have fun

-I like clean house

-cook

-Mechanically inclined

-Make great drinks

-Host a mean party

-Love photagraphy

-Cook

-Kids are the greatest

-Love to travel

-Listen to all kinds of music literally

-Cook

-Need Very little sleep

-Touchy feely even in public

-Did I mention I can cook

Bad

-Drink alot (but not a mean drunk)

-Dont take care of myself

-Eat to much candy

-Can be selfish sometimes

-Hypersexual

-Need very litle sleep

-Not very ecologically responsible

Ugly

-Fast and careless driver

-Swear to fuckin much

I am at a point in my life where I want to forge life long friendships. I have had years and years of just passers-by. I want friends I can rely on in a pinch and who I know I can be there when they need me as well.

Aside from working what seems like all the time, trying to keep my self busy so I dont think about how bad a relationship I am in.

I am writing a cook book. Unfortunately I have been writing it for years, way too many years. But I have many more recipes to perfect before its even near finished.

WANTED!! guinne (sp) pig. Must be food adventurous, overly critical, and have exceptional tastes buds and no food allergys apply with in.

Developing recipes If I do say so myself. Choosing wine. Making up mixed drinks. Being on time

Beats me you have to tell me. If I was to guess it would be my wild uncombed hair. Look out Mike Commodore

Books - Anything that has to do with wine or food or submarines. Amy Tan is a good author too. And steven King and Marion Zimmer Bradley
Movies - Grease 2, Princess Bride. Anything by Mel Brooks he's a comedic genious, Monty Python rocks too. John Cleese is a very funny guy
Music - Any thing really from the anti nowhere league to ZZ top. Mighty Mighty Bosstones. Shock Nagasaki. I prefer it loud and hard (not sex well yes sex too) but I can take it down a few dozen notches put on a suit and enjoy the opera or even the symphony. bring it on

Food Well as an aspiring soon to be world famous, Maybe chef (NOT!) I will eat just about anything as long as it doesnt bite back. Wait if it bites I think I can hold it down long enough to get a nibble or two in.

I dunno aside from the essentials I can live without all the material shit I have.

However I need my coffee and my work since it keeps me entertained. I think all things aside I would say I need TRUE companionship. above all else.

Oh and the ability to speak the english language. With that I can regain everything I have ever or may ever loose!

Sex, recipes, how to improve my culinary skills, where I left my cell phones, what can i do with my hair. How long will it take for me to get off my dead ass and go back to school. 6 degrees of separation.

AT mom's with the girls for shabbat dinner. Then I head home to rock the baby to bed. Usually fall asleep with her in my arms every night. But its how I have bonded with her.

claudiacd

Your somewhat local, find me interesting or even challenging (as a personality type) You need a recipe for some meat or sea food you have and want to impress a few friends or even another man. You're a hockey fan and want to spend some time in the penalty box. (was that my outside voice?.)