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31 Saint Paul, MN Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
May 15
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Christianity, but not too serious about it
Capricorn, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from two-year college
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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Hello to all of you taking the time to read my profile I'm Joe and I am a geek. Wow I just sounded like I was speaking to some sort of AA meeting only its for geeks instead ;). I may be a geek and a nerd both, but there is quite a bit more to me than those two qualities I promise.

If you were to ask my friends, family, and even some of my coworkers what makes me unique or stand out from them and others they would probably tell you things such as I am very detail oriented, knowledgeable, and down to earth to name a few adjectives. Whether I am at work or out doing something else I always like to stay informed and know what's going on around me. Technology fascinates me and that's why both of my jobs are technology driven. I currently full time at Target in Electronics as a specialist and I am also a pert time Field Technician Specialist for World Wide TechServices currently servicing Dell computers for homes and businesses alike.

Some of my interests that I have are things like video games, computers, basketball, walking, hiking, bowling, traveling, fishing, etc. I also am also a very big family person and I can usually be found joining my immediate family and even extended family for various functions and it helps that most of them live right here in Minnesota.

Some of my favorite TV shows would include anything from various anime to shows like Big Bang Theory, Family Guy, American Dad, Futurama, Simpsons, Two and a Half Men (the Charlie Sheen ones that is), Invader Zim, and Rick and Morty. That's just a sample of what I watch or have watched. I'm always open to new interesting shows.

Now that you have an idea of who I am I should probably give you an idea of what I am looking for in a woman. Obviously physical attraction is a must, but there is more that I look for than just that. I like a woman that has a personality that I can get along with and not feel like there will always be bumping heads and arguments every step of the way. If your into sports whether its playing them, watching them, or both, then we will for sure get along great I feel. If your into technology or gaming I consider those bonus points, and not deal breakers by any means. However, it does help in giving us more things we could talk about and and even enjoy together. Also this is a big one for me and that is your actually serious in establishing a long term relationship. If I really just wanted to have a fling I'd just go to a bar. Just saying is all. Communication is also very big with me too. I feel that if two people in a relationship are unable to tell each other what is on their mind and even share some of what is going on in their lives, then a relationship is doomed to fail.

Now things that I would deem as deal breakers are if you smoke anything, do drugs, are constantly getting drunk (its ok to let loose here and there and have a good time, but if its every other day type of affair I'm not interested), or have kids and are looking for a new baby daddy, then we probably are not going to get along very well or at all. On the kid thing especially I'd rather the kids we share together be from both of us, and not me raising someone another person's kids that I am not the parent of biologically.

If you want to actually get to know me and not just chat online here and then go no further I would love to hear from you. In the mean time good luck and I look forward to hearing from you.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Besides doing the usual grind of working I spend a lot of time just doing whatever the day brings. I like to think of myself as someone who just takes the day as it comes and do whatever comes to mind.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm really good at video games and dealing with various technology. I am also good with history, having a sense of direction, and science to an extent. There is more than just these things, but then we'd have nothing to talk about later :).
The first things people usually notice about me
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I usually get told I look much younger than I really am. I'm sure if you didn't know my age you'd be surprised to know I'm 30. The other things have to be my deep blue eyes or how tall I am.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Movies: Ted, Dark Knight Series, Final Fantasy Advent Children, Nightmare Before Christmas, Iron Man 1 and 2, The Avengers, Watchmen, Inception, Star Trek. Lord of the Rings Series, The Hobbit, The Croods, Chrome Shell Regios, Sword Art Online, Kazne No Stigma, Rosario + Vampire, etc. I pretty much just surf through Netflix and if something looks interesting I will probably watch it.

Food: Pizza, Cinnabun, Hamburger Soup, Red Velvet Cake, Cheesecake, Bacon, etc. I know these all sound so healthy and such, but really I will eat anything that looks good.

Music: Mainly Rap, and I am a huge fan of Eminem. I will however, listen to just about anything that sounds good though, but I do tend to not listen to country as it just never appealed to me. Still don't let that keep you from messaging me as its no deal breaker for me if you do enjoy it.

Video Games: Now that I have a PS4 I have a somewhat expanded library of games I enjoy. I enjoy such series as Final Fantasy, Tales of Destiny, and Assassin's Creed, I also enjoy games like Thief, Killzone: Shadow Fall, Don't Starve, Warframe, Guild Wars 2, Skyrim, Torchlight II, Diablo, and The Last of Us, Final Fantasy XIV: A Realm Reborn (PS4), and Watch_Dogs (PS4).
Games I am excited for include Final Fantasy XV, Destiny, Dragon Age: Inquisition, and Batman: Arkam Knight to name a few next gen titles.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Besides the usual family, food, water, transportation, and any other necessities I would have to say:

Computer (for my technician job)

My Cats (They are part of my bachelor package ;) )

Netflix (where would I be without this service and all the shows and movies I can get caught up on when the weather is bad?)

Basketball (I use to be in a league and I still love to play pick up games)

History (one of my best subjects in school)

Science (so fascinating in how many different aspects to this there are)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I think about a lot of things, but a few that come to mind in relation to being on here would be as follows:

Why there are so many very short almost bare profiles that tell me nothing about someone that I may be interested? If you expect me to send a message to you the least you can do is tell me something about yourself that is not some one word sentence saying "Just ask me." or something that has nothing to do with telling anything about yourself. If your not serious about filling out a profile, then don't join this site I say.

Why its considered taboo by many women on here if you mention sex anywhere in your profile as a guy? Not every guy who says something about sex is a crazed horn dog. If a woman can say she has a high sex drive on here, then why can't a guy say the same thing? Just saying is all.

I also wonder if there is really someone out there for me and if I made the right choice in trying online dating.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
It depends on if I had to work late doing Dell calls or if I had an early day off. It could be anything from staying at home and watching Netflix or playing a video game to hanging out with some of my friends and just doing whatever we feel like doing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I look at other profiles of those who viewed me for any potential compatibility and like I said before wonder why so many profiles are lacking of any substance. I also was cheated on.
You should message me if
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You should message me if you think we would obviously be a great match for each other. Did I mention above that I can quite sarcastic at times? No? Well I am just to warn you :). Anyway Besides the obvious in being a great match if your looking to establish a long term relationship and hopefully settle down in the not so distant future I'd love to hear from you. If your big into sports, technology, or even gaming in addition to the above why are you hesitating in messaging me? Also if your feeling bold and want to go against the norm of expecting the guy to always make the first move that's bonus points in my book, because confidence is sexy I think.

Also I can't stress this enough, but if you expect me to send you a message or respond back to one sent by you please first off say something more than "Hi or "Hello" as chances are quite high I will ignore your message and probably delete it. Also I get if your pretty new to here and you message me right away, but for those of who have been on this site more than a couple of days it would be nice if you gave me something in your profile to understand who you are and see how well we might match up. Writing single sentence descriptions, being vague about who you are, or simply putting just ask are not going to make me want to talk to you and instead make me feel you really don't care about putting an effort on here to finding anyone. Just saying is all.