Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Positive, outgoing woman. Loves to laugh and have fun. Easy going
and free spirited. I have a lot of interests, definitely more
interests than time to pursue them. Of course I like all of the
usual things - movies, music, hanging with friends, working out,
anything outdoors when the weather is nice, cooking, concerts,
reading, and traveling. I'm up for just about anything with the
right person. My friends would say that I am funny, open-minded,
outspoken, loyal, intelligent, and kind.
I grew up in Florida, and I love the beach! I've been here for 19
years though, so I consider Missouri home. I have a 16 year old son
and I can't imagine raising him in FL, for a number of reasons. But
my parents still live there and we try to visit at least once a
I like going to the casino but I'm also careful with my money so I
can't go often or tolerate huge losses. I like motorcycles but it's
not a dealbreaker if you don't. I haven't dated anyone with a bike
in a while. I took my safety course a while ago but never bought a
bike. Maybe someday.
I am not religious at all, but its ok if you are. I just wasn't
raised with organized religion as my parents are disenchanted
Catholics. However I do believe in God and I am very spiritual. I
am fascinated by anything metaphysical. I am reading up on the
String Theory...fascinating. I believe in the Law of Attraction and
that your thoughts create your world, so I don't like to be around
negative people. I try to meditate every day, even if its just for
a few minutes. I also practice yoga or Qi Gong a few times a
I believe that you get what you pay for so I am not real sure about
this website. But so far the questions are interesting! One thing
baffles me though - having the exact same answer as someone, yet
they have said my answer is "unacceptable". If it's ok for you, why
is it not ok for me? Are they just careless when hitting the
buttons to select their answer?
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Paying the bills and raising my son. Stopping to smell the roses as
often as I can. Trying to find one great guy who thinks I am great
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
a lot of different things. I am really good at my job. I am a good
listener (my job requires patience and the ability to listen). I am
also good at staying calm under pressure (another job
requirement...was recently called a calming beacon),
procrasinating, cooking, kissing, multitasking. My son tells me I
am great at making a sandwich and ironing his shirts. I am also
very good at smacking the back of his head. I don't iron.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Peanut butter cups
Drunken Fish for sushi
La Salsa...good food, great salsa, and good tequila
KSHE, Classic rock n roll but I like all kinds of music
Sammy Hagar, Cowboy Mouth, Kid Rock, Better Than Ezra, Boston, Van
Will go to almost any concert...love live music
Dexter, Homeland, True Blood, Walking Dead, Breaking Bad,
Justified, Nurse Jackie, Orange is the New Black
Dean Koontz...I have read almost all of his books at least
Sweet red wine and top shelf tequila
Too many movies to list
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
There are many material things I absolutely adore, but really, if
it came right down to it, I could live without them. What is really
important in life is family, friends, love, happiness, gratitude,
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I spend a lot of time thinking about my life...things I am grateful
for, mistakes I have made, where my life is going and how I am
going to get there. I also spend a lot of time thinking about what
makes other people tick. I am a people watcher and love hearing
other people's stories.
I also spend time wondering why guys use profile pics that are very
old. C'mon guys, I've been divorced for 14 years, so I've been on
and off these dating sites in between relationships for a while
now. I recognize you and that old pic! With the new cell phone
cameras, you can take a self portrait without a bathroom mirror
these days. Just do it!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
It varies...happy hour after work is always a good way to end the
week. Sometimes I am just beat and go home and watch a movie. And
sometimes I have to be mom's taxi.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
If it's private, I am not willing to admit it!
You should message me if
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If you can compose a message that indicates to me that you actually
read my profile and perhaps looked at some of my answers to the
questions. It doesn't have to be a long one, but you wouldn't
believe how many emails I get that just say "Hi", "How are you?" or
some other variation of that one liner. I even got this message
once: "???" What is that supposed to mean? Just punctuation? What
are you questioning?
I am ultimately looking for a LTR , but it's got to start
somewhere. I am in no rush to be in a relationship and not one of
these needy women to latch on. I am tired of lies and playing games
with players. I always have an open mind when I first meet someone.
I don't judge guys on other guy's past bad behavior. But there is a
reason why employers have a 90 probation period. It doesn't take
long for true colors to shine through. If you are full of shit I
will figure that out pretty quickly.
One of my few deal breakers is cigarette smoking. They just gross
me out, and even if you are a very courteous smoker, I just won't
go down that road with you. I can always smell it all over you
after you come back inside from a smoke break. If you occasionally
have a smoke when you drink, I can live with that. No daily cig
smokers though please. E-cigs may be ok, haven't really hung out
with anyone who partakes of them.
If you are a bleeding heart liberal I don't think we would be a
good match. I firmly support the second amendment. If you are under
40, please don't bother, because I won't reply.
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