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42 Belmont, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30–42
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Has kids

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I keep wondering.

I love people and their endless variety. I am quite certain that I will enjoy getting to know you, even if we have little in common. I like figuring out how we all make our way in the world. I will want to know about your tattoos, your lovers, your scars and your smile. I'll ask lots of questions and be impressed if you do too.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I love the combination of trying to do well by doing good. I'm raising good kids. I'm squeezing in more than i thought was possible in less time. I'm laughing. a lot. I'm being inconsistent with Capitalization.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
paying attention, wordplay, remembering my go to jokes, spelling, texting, dancing, being in the moment, being self-reflective. Asking questions.

Talking to strangers. Pretending to know what drink I am ordering. Impressing your parents. Going with the flow.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My hair.

I wish they would notice my ability to suspend judgment, my compassion or my instinct for saying the right thing at the right time.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
*I find that I skim this section. I am quite certain that if you like to read including but not limited to, classics, modern classics, thrillers, historical fiction, fantasy, non-fiction and (sadly personal growth) then I have read something you like and we can talk about it.

I listen to npr when I drive. I tend toward comedies and can't watch horror movies. I always say Star Wars is my favorite, but i'm pretty sure that isn't true. Life is Beautiful changed my life. Caddyshack did not, but I'm still glad I can quote it.

I listen to way more Eminem and Enya than socially acceptable.

I will add that I am recently completely taken with electronic music. I am mildly obsessed with Pretty Lights and trying very hard to go to many more shows. I would really like you to come with me (but only if I like you of course).

Food. I like it and I feel like our relationship continues to evolve.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Books, friends, dancing, touch, my kids, loving my work.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why so many people look so sad.

Why having an open mind appears to be so difficult for so many people.

Relationships and their complexity, exercise and food.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Probably at home with my kiddos, out on the road at a conference or dancing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm mildly afraid of heights. I'm more analytical than is probably good for me. I admit most private things willingly, but you have to ask questions to get answers.
You should message me if
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You are confident and open. You say yes more often than no and look for adventure as well as comfort. You ask questions.

You are still exploring who you are and like that I am too.

You would like to go with me to a great concert or festival in the near future. Its my new favorite thing, and though I'm late to get how fun it is...I'm making up for lost time.

I'm serious about this last one....let's go create a memory at the very least.